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MetteGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 19-Sept-16 12:35:33

To celebrate the publication of Alfie and His Very Best Friend, we're giving away a blue Mini Microscooter plus a bundle of Alfie books, including the latest book.

Alfie and Bernard are very best friends and together they have lots of adventures. Join them as they go to the library, take part in scooter races and make a very special club with only two special members! A heart-warming tale of friendship by the award-winning Shirley Hughes, creator of Dogger.

Shirley Hughes has won the Other Award, the Eleanor Farjeon Award, and the Kate Greenaway Medal for Illustration twice, for Dogger in 1977 and for Ella's Big Chance in 2003. In 2007 Dogger was voted the public's favourite Greenaway winner of all time. Shirley received an OBE in 1999 for services to Children's Literature, and is the first recipient of Booktrust's Lifetime Achievement Award.

To be in with a chance to win a blue Mini Microscooter and a bundle of Alfie books including Alfie and His Very Best Friend, tell us what are your top tips for helping your grandchild to make friends?

Post your entry below by midday Wednesday 12 October. Can't wait? You can purchase your copy of Alfie and His Very Best Friend on Amazon.

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Elegran Sun 16-Oct-16 22:22:28

I now have a dramatic image of a granny throwing children into a nursery and leaving smartly before they object!

( I'd never heard of trajectoring anyone or anything, so I checked a dictionary - trajectory - noun - the path followed by a projectile flying or an object moving under the action of given forces. )

cullum36 Sun 16-Oct-16 21:33:52

I find the best way is to trajectory them to baby groups and nursery's from a young age so they learn to socialise and as they get older regularly take them to see family or friends children so they learn how to get along with others

molly57 Wed 12-Oct-16 21:23:31

Encourage them to talk about anything.

SorchaGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 12-Oct-16 17:34:07

Thanks for all your tips! Well done to Grannyjacq1 who has been picked to win the Microscooter plus an Alfie book bundle.

We'll be dropping you an email shortly.

jacqroberts Wed 12-Oct-16 11:57:46

Offer to have a playday together or if all else fails McDonalds

jayne515151 Wed 12-Oct-16 10:57:30

I always tell them just to be themselves, be kind to other children and help them if you can, be social, not shy, and have fun .x

TONKATOL Wed 12-Oct-16 01:32:58

Encourage them to smile, be friendly and, most importantly to share with others!

peartsue Tue 11-Oct-16 23:36:31

I would say confidence is key, building confidence will enable your grandchild to make friends easily. Just as long as they know a friendship is based on trust they will be fine.

Penelopa024 Tue 11-Oct-16 23:02:28

I find that you only need to take them to the places with other children and they will just do what seems fun - play with each other

gill81uk Tue 11-Oct-16 21:58:20

Introduce them to your friends grandchildren. It's really good for them to meet kids who go to different schools and build relationships away from all the school dramas.

clarabella3 Tue 11-Oct-16 21:53:47

take them to play parks and soft play areas also meet up with friends with grankids too

Teresa1963 Tue 11-Oct-16 21:45:02

With my grandchildren like my children I encouraged them to bring their friends home after school for tea, it gives them social skills and teaches them to share their toys etc, they love it their friends love it it gives other mums a little break and I love seeing them play with their friends

cazhow Tue 11-Oct-16 21:24:56

Take them to places where they can do activities and interact with other children their age

handbar Tue 11-Oct-16 18:11:05

My grandson has always made friends by going out with a football.Children soon make a beeline to him wanting to join in a kickabout.Fortunately he loves football and is very good at it.

Dessallara Tue 11-Oct-16 13:46:00

Let them interact with other kids by themselves in the playground without following them every step smile

minilynn3 Tue 11-Oct-16 11:32:35

Encourage children to join in activities with other children e.g. at the library, after school, swimming lessons

GRIFTERASSASIN Tue 11-Oct-16 11:04:38

Just get them into the habit of asking children if they would like to play.

sonya Tue 11-Oct-16 10:36:50

Show your child how they can be a good friend by role modeling this yourself when out and about with them by waving to people, being friendly, giving compliments etc. Discuss with the child after encounters that it's nice to have friends and that it makes you happy talking to others.

clarkster Tue 11-Oct-16 08:17:44

Help them with their confidence.After school clubs and sports classes

aeadkins Tue 11-Oct-16 08:01:48

For older children, make sure they have several different friendship groups eg. school, neighbours, sports/hobbies & scouting/Girlguiding. If they fall out with one group of friends they have others to help support them until they (invariably) "make up".

Lesevans6 Tue 11-Oct-16 03:33:23

They need you as a friend just as much as you need them as a friend.

DimensionAEB Mon 10-Oct-16 23:55:22

Create a circle of friends by encouraging playtime with a few neighborhood children. Invest in some quality time and snacks, and you'll cultivate friendships that may stay with your child throughout high school, maybe even for life.

kathcake Mon 10-Oct-16 22:32:04

take them to lots of toddler groups where they can mix with other kids

callkiki Mon 10-Oct-16 21:24:15

Encourage but not push as some children take longer to to feel comfortable around other children.

wef1984 Mon 10-Oct-16 21:23:40

Take them to places that they can meet new people