I remember Christmas with my beloved Grandparents, known as Banny and Banfer, they were 'in service' as housekeeper and gardener, but we three children were always allowed to stay in the attic at Christmas and take part in the festivities. I remember the cosy kitchen with its big black Kitchener and an enormous table covered in a white cloth groaning with food. There was always a splendid tree and decorations with a fairy at the top dressed by my Banny that I eventually was given and have still, 69 years later. happy memories.
Bereavement wipes out everything

