I had two Grandmas who I loved very much but for different reasons (both dead now).
My Maternal Grandma lived in Beverley, Yorkshire. She was very ‘proper’ and was always baking. Her house smelt of baked pastries, hot bread and furniture wax polish. She had had 14 children and she brought them all up and steeled herself when three of the boys, and one of the girls, went to fight in WWII. The boys were soldiers (one caught in the sea at Dunkirk lived with German shrapnel in his neck until he died a few years ago, another was helping with the Berlin Airlift, he died a few years after his brother), the daughter was a Red Cross nurse. My Grandma used to let me feed the pig and chickens and collect the eggs. Also my job was to pick the pink gooseberries in her back garden. I have never tasted curd tart like Grandma used to make.
My Paternal Grandma lived ‘Up North’ in Middlesborough. She had four children. She was a laugh a minute. Loved to have a pint of Guinness at the week-end with her game of Bingo. She used to mess around and did things such as riding a broom like a horse or marching around the room with a broom on her shoulder, like a rifle, with a colander on her head for a hat, to make us laugh. I still have a photograph of her doing that. I am her image. I remember taking empty pop bottles to the corner shop for pocket money and spending the money on 2 ounce of sweets or kali and a lollipop. She was not well off because my Grandfather died early so she lived on his pension. Always happy and welcoming when we visited and would give you the crust from her mouth. Her special treat was ‘bread and lard’ which we loved.
So, two Grandmas, both much loved, but both oh so different.