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LadyGracie Wed 14-Jun-17 19:21:31

Summer of 69, in Malaysia, DD had a posting there, I saw my now DH and he saw me across a swimming pool, we were both and still are very shy, he was so handsome, the gazing at each other when ever the opportunity arose, went on until 2 days after my 18th birthday, June 14th 1969 (48 years ago today). I went to a party in the squadron mess, DH had had a few and spoke to me, that was the beginning of a wonderful relationship. We married in Singapore in 1970.

aggie Wed 14-Jun-17 17:02:04

Caravanning in Donegal in a static caravan with no "facilities" , cold tap, Portaloo in a toilet tent ( which blew away one night while someone was enthroned !,gas heating and lights . With 6 children from 3 months to teens ! We had a ball ! fresh (very)air meant that anything edible disappeared in moments . They all slept all night , except the baby , who managed to throw up most nights , due to me dozing and the wee darling gorging on my boob !Rain meant nothing , wellies and sowesters on and everyone out like puppies scrambling up the dunes and out till hunger drove them back for refuelling . I was left with baby and toddler a bucket of terry nappies in Napisan !Rinsed them under the cold tap and they dried in the wind , even in the rain they seemed to get semi dry !Big pot of spuds on the gas ring , several packets of sausages on another and a tin of beans meant supper , sometimes we got icecream from the shop . Did I mention OH took off home after 2 days ? The shop was a 15 minute walk over the fields . My lot all love caravanning and camping but say the campsites are too sophisticated compared to the farmers field in Donegal ........... not sure I would do it now , but they were halcyon days smileWe went back several years in a row , but the first one was the best

mbody Wed 14-Jun-17 16:24:35

Summer holidays with my daughter, we always ran out of holiday before we ran out of things to do!!

SueDonim Wed 14-Jun-17 14:31:38

I've been fortunate enough to have had lots of happy summers. I could choose the year my first baby was born, 1975, which was very good weatherwise, days of sitting in the garden with a gorgeous small baby, with the nappies drying on the line in no time; of walking to pub gardens with him in his pram in the evenings, for a cooling drink (us, not the baby!) and a holiday in Germany.

Or the summer of '87 when my first daughter was born, then her sister in 1996, with three adoring older siblings doting on her.

Or maybe it was the summers when my older children graduated and we were so very proud of them.

Perhaps it was the year we went to California for our son's Jewish wedding or the years we've been to America to see him and his family.

So many to choose from, how can I pick just one? smile

gillybob Wed 14-Jun-17 12:44:53

About 15 years ago DH and I hadn't had a holiday in years (its always been difficult to get away from work and family pressures) but after a particularly difficult year we persuaded ourselves that we really needed a holiday, just the two of us.

Anyway having left it all until last minute we were limited to what was left and eventually found a little place off the beaten track in Cyprus. It was miles away from anywhere with around 10 apartments and a little pool. We decided that we would hire a little car and just relax zzzzzzzzzzzz. Heaven

Anyway just a couple of weeks before we were due to go my poor mum was given the diagnosis that we were half expecting but dreading, when it was confirmed that she had bone cancer. My first thought was to cancel the holiday but my DH looked so deflated and the words were out of my mouth before my brain had engaged... "Why don't you and dad come with us? what harm could it be? we are hiring a car after all. You can relax, I'm sure the doctor would agree.... "

Anyway cutting a very long story short, the quiet, romantic holiday for 2 turned out to be a not so romantic holiday for 4. DH did more driving than we had originally intended as we toured the island. We found quiet beaches, we ate Meze, we visited museums, we shopped in Nicosia and it was worth it all just to see my mum (and dad) laughing (even if it was only for a short while).

Many years later (well only last year actually) my mum came home from hospital having made the heartbreaking decision that she wanted to die at home with her family around her. All sitting around her bed, listening to music we laughed together and talked about the old days. My mum said that one of her happiest memories was that holiday to Cyprus and asked to see the old photos. I found one from that holiday with mum peering through the bottom of 2 (Keo) beer bottles looking out to sea as if they were binoculars. My mum was tee total and never drank alcohol, which makes the photo all the funnier and it takes me back to one of the happiest holidays I can remember.

shysal Wed 14-Jun-17 11:23:53

I am another who loved the summer with my young children. I often remember DD2 dancing naked on the old kitchen table top without legs that we used for picnics, on her first birthday.

yggdrasil Wed 14-Jun-17 10:52:45

My best summer, that would be 1967. I was at University. My grandmother got an invitation from one of the family in Canada to go and visit. She said, she was too old (?) and they should let me go stay instead. So I got a cheap flight via BUNAC, and went across the Atlantic.
My aunt lived in Ottawa, her husband worked at the Niagara Hydro.
So in the weeks I was with them, we went to Expo67 in Montreal, saw Niagara Falls from the outside and the inside, went sailing on Lake Ontario, and saw the play MacBird at Stratford, Ontario.
After I left them, I went to stay with an old friend of my mother's in Boston Mass. I took buses round New England, saw Plimouth Plantation and the Mayflower, before it was all completed with historical interpreters as it is today.
Finished up with a week in New York in a cheap hotel, seeing all the sights before flying home from JFK.
I look back now and think just how confident I was in those days. It's taken me 50 years of marriage and motherhood and worry to get halfway back to how I was at age 20 :-)

Alima Wed 14-Jun-17 09:25:02

The summer of '76, we got married in July of that year. Moved into our first married quarter in the September and missed having to use stand pipes for water by only days. Happy days.

Mapleleaf Wed 14-Jun-17 09:20:02

Honeymoon in Paris. Came back broke, but what a wonderful city!

chelseababy Tue 13-Jun-17 18:14:46

1976 summer i finished college....camping holiday with boyfriend. Happy days.

nanaK54 Tue 13-Jun-17 17:10:41

Any summer when my sons were 'little' - days filled with innocence and simple pleasures......

Grannyknot Tue 13-Jun-17 17:05:53

There is a song "When I was 17, it was a very good year" that always reminds me of 1966 and the summer after I finished school (Southern Hemisphere so we're talking December).

I had an adoring and adorable boyfriend (why did I ditch him?!), and was in that blissful state of "the world at my feet". Friends of his family owned a holiday cottage on the Cape Wilderness coast and a group of teenagers were let loose there for the holidays. Amazingly, my mother allowed me to go (probably being a bit naive about the level of freedom we would have).

This is a cover version of the song (swoon):

www.youtube.com/watch?v=20n_XhoDJdE

We swam, body surfed, walked along the beach for miles, made bonfires at night - and <...leaves the rest to imagination...>

CariGransnet (GNHQ) Tue 13-Jun-17 16:17:13

What is summer without a good book? And when it comes to good books, we have many excellent suggestions.

Here is a round-up of some of the best new reads for the summer holidays. One very (very!) lucky person can win the lot. All the details right here

To enter simply tell us about your best summer. It can be in as many (or few) words as you like. Prize draw will be made at midday on Weds 19 July.

My best summer... Now it's over to you