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NatashaGransnet (GNHQ) Fri 17-Apr-20 10:30:29

To celebrate the release of The Switch by Beth O'Leary we're giving one lucky gransnetter the chance to win a £150 Waterstones voucher, along with a copy of the book. We're also giving two runners-up £50 worth of Waterstones vouchers each as well as a copy of the book.

More details on the prize can be found HERE and T&Cs HERE. We will pick a winner after 11am on 23rd May.

To enter simply tell us... How important is it for people of all ages to feel connected to their community?

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MAForster Fri 22-May-20 10:26:13

It is very important. We are fortunate in living with good neighbours and excellent community support, some centred on our Parish Church which has been providing amazing help.

JennyPattie Fri 22-May-20 10:19:54

It's so important to stay connected to others in your community because we are sociable creatures who aren't meant to be alone. It doesn't matter what your age is, we are each an integral part of other's lives.

nannav Fri 22-May-20 09:47:38

It’s so so important! People of all ages get lonely and need human contact whether that be in person, message or video call. It may seem like an effort / hard work for one person but for those on the receiving end it can mean so much and make their day!

BendyBenji Fri 22-May-20 09:34:48

Generally, very, but it depends on the individual and the community they're in.

Angella Fri 22-May-20 09:27:57

It’s vitally important to stay connected to your local community because people get depressed without social contact. My elderly father lives in a very small cul de sac and nearly everyone in the avenue has made an effort to keep him involved in their everyday lives. They will stop and have a chat to him in the garden (socially distanced) and invited him to the recent VE Day celebrations (again all socially distanced). They have offered to pay his paper bill for him and do his shopping which is really great and takes the pressure of myself who visits regularly and has a chat at a distance too

natnoodo Fri 22-May-20 09:26:57

It is extremely important especially for those isolated with no close connections. It's a support network for all.

cjh123 Fri 22-May-20 08:52:17

I think we can learn a lot from the past remembering the times when we knew our neighbours, checked on our families regularly, helped people out and just enjoyed being part of the local community. Phones, computers and TV have played a huge part in keeping us in touch but in some ways it has had a damaging effect when just a chat over the fence is so much nicer than a text.

Dodo123 Fri 22-May-20 08:40:33

It’s so important. Even more so during this scary time. It’s makes the elderly very vulnerable and lonely. We need to come together as a community to support one another.

Catherinebullas Fri 22-May-20 08:34:36

It's hugely important. It helps people with their mental health and physical well-being.

sweepy Fri 22-May-20 08:09:49

Perhaps recent events have brought the seeming paradox of connection into sharp relief for us all - without a connection we are safe from lethal viruses, physical hurt by others, mental anguish caused by others and so on....but then of course we also then miss out on all the amazing positives - love, support, acts of kindness, fascination and wonder at our differences, and (perhaps the most important one) meaning to life.

soozieee Fri 22-May-20 07:59:52

It’s very important as if you don’t connect with your community you start to turn in on yourself and go into a downward spiral.

fullarton121 Fri 22-May-20 07:44:11

Very important. I think the local pub helps with keeping the community together - sadly most of them are closing due to high taxes and being unable to make a profit.

sammii04 Fri 22-May-20 07:10:30

It's definitely so important. I think it's also important that people of different ages communicate, learn and build friendships with each other. It can help the younger generations learn and build empathy with older people, and allow older people to learn about what's important to younger people - especially technology!

eaglestone Fri 22-May-20 06:57:47

Very important, as it's all part of the human instinct of needing to belong to a group. Life feels empty without this "belonging" feeling.

elamic Fri 22-May-20 06:42:38

We all have a human need to feel part of things. Local communities offer an extremely wide opportunity to be involved with neighbours of different ages, cultures & experiences. In modern days the ‘old’ community has been lost resulting in breakdown of local structure. Feeling part of a local community means you can actually see & feel the improvement in the local area & people are now beginning to recognise & know their neighbours so they’re moving on to become friends

chr1ssy0908 Fri 22-May-20 06:40:21

Well it’s simply not a community if people are not connecting! It is more important than ever to be reaching out and looking after one another, and don’t be fooled - for every selfish story we read in the news about selfish acts people have done, there must be many many acts of kindness carried out where people are looking out for one another!

Lesevans6 Fri 22-May-20 06:19:11

Every Human Being is Different, so the answer is it is a personal thing about being a member of the community. I am not involved with my community but others feel it is important and at this time some people are giving their lives for that reason.

Iamclare Fri 22-May-20 04:09:22

Community is the heart of each town/village/city. Every citizen makes a difference to how this is built , regardless of age. It vitally important to communicate together, support one another, and to give a sense of belonging somewhere.

avery64 Thu 21-May-20 23:42:44

I think it very much depends on the individual. Hubby and I have lived in our village for nearly 50 years but don't get very involved with community events. We are not social animals and prefer our own company. However we have gone out of our way to forge good relationships with our neighbours and are quite supportive of each other.

JulieAAA Thu 21-May-20 22:58:18

It is extremely important for people of all ages to feel connected, and to look out for each other and be kind to each other. Loneliness is a real scourge of modern society, and we need to do far more to mitigate it.

Sarah1271 Thu 21-May-20 22:40:27

It's very important so none feels excluded and that people know that everyone is there to help

strawberry115 Thu 21-May-20 22:27:13

We need to be connected to our neighbours to offer friendship where needed and kindness. By caring and considering our community we build better lives for everyone and set a good example to the youngsters.

jaizko Thu 21-May-20 22:26:09

It's important but people move so often that it's easily lost.

Taitataits Thu 21-May-20 22:12:28

Community is the sum of all parts. Every person, family, service, shop, trade, landmark and space contributes to a collective personality that we can treasure. It also has a quality that builds, the more you give to your community the more it rewards with a sense of belonging, purpose and friendship.

mandrob Thu 21-May-20 22:10:32

Nothing worse than being isolated and lonely, the interesting thing about the lockdown is that, I think, it has actually brought people together more. I've helped neighbours I never even knew before and others have helped me, for example dropping off a prescription at the doctor and saving me a very long walk.