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There's his stuff, my stuff and our stuff. Works brilliantly - well, it has done up to now !!

If it makes them happy I let them get on with it.

What a weirdly phrased question!
My husband is dead, but if he were still here I would be delighted to share an activity or past time with him so long as it was suitable for us both.

My DH took over all the everyday cooking when he retired. Until then it was my domain. He did consult with me first, but I couldn’t hand it over quickly enough. I’m eternally grateful to have three meals a day made for me and that all those days of planning and cooking are long gone! If I ever feel the need to feed someone, I can bake a cake.

I'd just let them get on with it-"me,me,me" is not a game I play.

I don't mind as long as it doesn't become his and not mine !

Aww, not fair. I can't enter. I don't have a partner.

Same here granny piper I wouldn't mind if he wanted to do something I do though don't think he would ever want to .

Like atticus I ma happily on my own.

Nothing as we share.most things

They would get told nice to keep their hands off

That would be unusual, but you never know ?

My DH doesn't get involved in my "stuff", he is far too busy in one of his many sheds faffing with one of his many Motorbikes. Thats the way i like it

Well in my family we talk about things,no one pokes there nose in each other affairs.

We both have different interests but if he does want to get involved, I let him.

I would think it was a bit odd initially...but I could get used to it

Everything is 'ours ' except when i buy biscuits as they all suddenly become 'his'. I've even bought ones i know he doesn't like, just so i can guarantee to get at least one out of a pack! ( he still manages to 'force them down!). So i think if i won i'd have the book and he could have the fit bit!

I Don't have anyone

My husband started getting involved in how I ran the kitchen when he retired - it has always been my domain as he never ever cooks. So I said to him "OK fine, it's all yours. I won't come in the kitchen again and you can take over the cooking!" Happily (or maybe unhappily!!) it worked and the kitchen is mine again.

I like that my husband is interested in something that I am doing and cares enough to offer to be involved if possible.

He usually keeps his distance and gets on with his bits. Good job too.

My partner only tends to try to get involved in 'my stuff' if he is bored or thinks what I am doing is more interesting than 'his stuff'. So I immediately abandon 'my stuff' and leave him to it. Then I start tampering with 'his stuff' and he immediately gets the message and leaves 'my stuff' alone.

i dont mind at all

We only have ours ...

I'm just happy to share with someone I love - I know that sounds a bit twee but we've never lived together and just sharing time together is good enough for me.