The other thing is - it's so much cheaper to get your proteins through a load of dried pulses. Tinned is ok, but more fattening because the fibres are partly broken down. Yes, a small amount in a stirfry is lovely. It adds another texture, but I know how conservative men can be, DBH and I rarely eat the same meals as each other, he hates beans and pulses. Do you eat much soup? Lentil soup is really nice. You can start off doing it slowly - use only half the mince you would in a Bolognese, make up the rest with lentils, cook as normal, they only take about 15 mins to soften up. You will just need to add more liquid.