I too find Stevia nasty, as does hubby (it seems like you call that DH here? Does that stand for Dear Husband????). I use erythritol, which seems to hardly ever get mentioned, but I find to be by far the best sugar substitute, for many reasons - it is a natural sweetener, a sugar alcohol I think - don't quote me on that! - like Xylitol, but absolutely calorie free! It does have that slightly "cooling" sensation/taste sometimes, but not overly strongly and i think you can adjust to that. It looks exactly like granulated white sugar, and you use it like for like, although it is only 70% as sweet as sugar, so in baking I boost it with a teaspoon of sucralose. And yes, you can bake with it, and even make meringues, as well as sprinkling it in and on foods. If you replace all the sugar in a recipe it can make it a bit dry, so you can either up the liquid to compensate or sub perhaps half of the sugar, or simply choose "wetter" recipes! You can buy it as a brand called Sukrin - they do the basic white granulated version, a powdered version for where you would use icing sugar, both of which are calorie free, and a version called Gold, which even my difficult man sprinkles on his fruit or cereal - it looks, smells and tastes just like soft brown sugar - the trade-off is that it isn't completely cal free - but something like 50cal per 100g vs 600cal in sugar! It is very expensive though! You can buy the basic erythritol from Amazon, and even eBay, at better prices, although still far more than sugar, but if you are trying to keep your usage low, I consider it worth it, for the pleasure of baking cakes etc again with less guilt!