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MammaN Fri 29-Apr-16 12:23:46

Yes and he's better than me at it, though perhaps prone to buying too many 'bargains'.

inishowen Fri 29-Apr-16 12:10:30

Hubby is a good shopper and he likes to work out the best deals. I sometimes wonder why we are penny pinching as he retired with a good pension and we have enough cash to be comfortable. I think it stems from our upbringing, when our parents really had to be thrifty. I tell my hubby I can't spend money on myself. I would rather get a coat in a charity shop than buy a new one!

chrissie13 Fri 29-Apr-16 11:51:16

I don't drive so my husband is nearly always with me when we do our grocery shopping. We both love searching for bargains, and work out the best deals, so no problem at all, and I can happily send him out on his own knowing he will come back with the right things, or if not sure he will ring me smile

annodomini Fri 29-Apr-16 11:21:26

DS1, an ex-chef, is a brilliant food shopper, usually with a comprehensive list on his phone. He shops mainly at Aldi which he used to poo-poo before he 'discovered' it in France. I enjoy shopping with him. His brother, on the other hand, will stock up with 'special offers' and buy cheese, for example, when there is already plenty in the fridge. However, I noticed, when I visited last weekend, that he too has discovered Aldi. As they have just moved to a bigger house, I expect he will be trying (but not too hard) to economise.

Craftycat Fri 29-Apr-16 11:19:14

Oh I can!
My ex used to come with me & not only put in things we didn't need or even eat but he would sneakily remove things like broccoli or cabbage that he didn't like! Note I say 'ex'!!
Current DH LOVES shopping- worked in Waitrose when at college- & cannot resist a supermarket. I never go with him as he has to look at every damn thing in every aisle- well it feels like that anyway! He often offers to go to 'pick up a few bits' for me & always comes back with bags of stuff we never use. 'It was on 2 for 1!' Yes but we don't eat it!!!
It drives me potty but he will never change. We rarely shop together anyway as he wants to go into every shop whereas I am a dash in - get what I am going in for & go home type. We are the wrong way round really. All my friends would love to take him shopping.

ninuksmith Fri 29-Apr-16 11:12:49

Unlike me, DH only buys what's on the list! So if I forgot to put a pint of milk in the list, although it is obvious that there was no milk in the fridge, it wouldn't occur to him to buy it. His reply would be "It's not in the list". But if I went to the supermarket to buy a pint of milk and a bag of apples,...somehow...by the time I got to the check out my shopping trolley is almost full! How did that happen? because I remembered oh, the washing powder is running low and oh, we also need toilet rolls, etc, etc!?

maryhoffman37 Fri 29-Apr-16 11:03:14

What an incredibly sexist question! My husband took over the supermarket weekly shop when our second child was born, thirty-six years ago. Now the three daughters are living independently and we still have very full work schedules, whichever one of us it free on a Wednesday or Thursday afternoon does it. Sometimes we go together and about once every two or three months we get a delivery.

I simply can't relate to this question or some of the comments above.

rubylady Fri 29-Apr-16 00:50:06

I don't have a DH so have the freedom to buy whatever I feel like buying, brilliant! grin

rosesarered Thu 28-Apr-16 17:23:18

Yes, I look at unit prices too. We usually take it in turns to go shopping, he sticks to my list ( he never, ever buys anything that he just fancies.) I, on the other hand, use a list as a guide only and buy lots of stuff not on it.It all gets used/eaten though( especially by him.)

lizzypopbottle Thu 28-Apr-16 17:17:03

I always compare the unit prices when I'm shopping. I'm surprised that some people don't. If I'm honest, I'm obsessed with unit prices. ?

Teetime Thu 28-Apr-16 15:30:49

DH is a good shopper i.e. he doesn't buy anything! When we go shopping which isn't often he rarely buys himself anything unless I push and push or get it for him. He is very thrifty and if I ask him to get something he will come back with the cheapest version he can find which isn't cheap in the end because then I have to go an buy it myself.

Jalima Thu 28-Apr-16 15:27:38

DH always says 'What are you staring at?!'
I am staring at the price per 100g or trying to calculate in my head the best value for money for the best quality produce!

Leah50 Thu 28-Apr-16 13:56:51

I'm a very canny shopper, I love a bargain, and I've not had the experience of DH overspending. He's never been in a supermarket in his life and rarely shops at all. He did recently buy himself a loaf in a bakery and rather shocked told me, "It cost more than £1, last time I bought one it was a shilling". Gotta love 'im!

merlotgran Thu 28-Apr-16 12:02:34

I always feel such a meanie when DH comes shopping with me. He'll pick up something and look at it longingly then put it back on the shelf when he sees me shaking my head.

He does find some good bargains down the middle bit in Aldi though. I haven't the time or patience to look down there because all I want to do in a supermarket is shop and get out again.

ninathenana Thu 28-Apr-16 11:57:08

H is a very good shopper, he never does the big shop alone as he doesn't drive he does come with me every week and will suggest things but mostly leaves it to me. I can safely send him out for 2-3 items and know that the only possible addition would be a tea time treat for me. So no complaints grin

Granarchist Thu 28-Apr-16 11:38:27

Am I the only person whose OH does exactly the opposite? If I ask him to get 2 packs of butter, he gets one. Its the same with everything - when I ask why he says he didn't think I really needed it. Makes my blood boil. When we go on holiday self-catering with another couple, the other husband always buys twice what he is asked to get so we send the two men out together - works brilliantly and we get pretty much what we need.

Antjexix Thu 28-Apr-16 10:29:14

DH was left to do food shopping when I had the flu in December. He spent a fortune on branded goods. Thankfully it's very rare that I leave it to him.

Swashbuckle Thu 28-Apr-16 10:26:46

Yes I do hate how the supermarkets try to trick you buy telling you price each for one bag of potatoes but then per kg for another.

Your DH sounds like mine Alea! He picks up whatever takes his fancy at the time. For me, if his favourite packet of crisps aren't on offer then he doesn't get them that week. I tend to bulk buy when things are on special offer, so by the time I run out, it's on offer again grin

sunseeker Thu 28-Apr-16 09:30:05

I usually have a calculator with me so I can work out whether those "bargains" really are value for money! I think our generation grew up watching the pennies and it is now second nature (for me anyway!)

Alea Thu 28-Apr-16 09:27:53

Yes and yes(to DH bumping up the bill!)
He will "take a fancy" to some organic/home grown/in season delicacy, fine, but why is it always double the "normal" price?
I am more of a "buy it on its penultimate day with a pleasing discount" type of person. Oh and a sucker for special offers, especially if I can freeze them for later.

Swashbuckle Thu 28-Apr-16 09:22:01

Yesterday DH insisted on coming food shopping with me so I let him. I usually prefer going without him because he always throws in unnecessary items and he doesn't check the price. Once he bought a punnet of plums for £4 when the ones next to them - which looked exactly the same - were on offer for 50p! I do like to examine the price label for cost per kg to make sure I get value for money. Does anyone else scrutinise prices and try to get the best value? Or am I the only cheapskate here? grin