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felice Fri 14-Dec-18 14:20:28

Reading that some people want to ban The Pogues Fairytale of New York because it contains the word Faggot I got to thinking that weren't Faggots some sort of meatball.
From the North of England I think, never had them as my Dad seemingly hated them.
I did a quick poll of my gay friends and none of them are remotely offended.
A step to far ?????

Jalima1108 Sat 15-Dec-18 10:28:07

Wum med
Love it, Blinko grin

I can't remember having wum med but certainly we ate the butcher's best!

4allweknow Sat 15-Dec-18 10:32:29

Faggots have been around for a long time and still are, they are for eating. Considered by some to be a cheap and nasty (form of food)hence the reference in the song. If people want to apply a different meaning that is new it's up to them. World gone mad.

henetha Sat 15-Dec-18 10:37:06

The world is going bonkers. I love this song and intend to play it very loudly every day throughout Christmas.
There was an item on the news this morning about the
Scottish parliament banning the phrase Gingerbread Men
and saying that it is now to be known as Gingerbread Persons!
Help! It's all mad and stupid!

Willow10 Sat 15-Dec-18 10:39:01

I've heard Baby its Cold Outside more often than ever in the shops this week, so maybe there is a backlash against this rubbish. There was also mention of calling gingerbread men gingerbread people on the news this morning! Has the world gone mad? By the way EV, I'm a veggie but I don't consider myself a troublemaker - I just don't like meat!

gerry86 Sat 15-Dec-18 10:39:46

It's not Christmas until I've heard that song

NoddingGanGan Sat 15-Dec-18 10:48:23

Oh! I'd forgotten. I went to a concert last week by a choir of older people. They sang a mixture of WW1 songs and Christmas stuff. They did, "Pack up your troubles" but they'd taken out the line about lighting your fag hmm World's gone mad.

Jan66 Sat 15-Dec-18 10:53:05

I am offended by the suggestion of banning this wonderful Christmas song!

Jalima1108 Sat 15-Dec-18 10:53:48

Oh dear - we sang it recently at a commemorative concert.

Everyone knew exactly what it meant
sad

Perhaps we should re-appropriate these words.

GabriellaG54 Sat 15-Dec-18 10:56:27

I was playing that song last night. Typical pc nonsense to ban it.
My parents used to say 'You silly faggot' if we children did anything daft, such as roller skating down a hill and scraping a knee or falling over.

EllanVannin Sat 15-Dec-18 10:57:21

Just carry on as we were ladies----------ignore the minority who are all out to spoil things for others.

Remember Larry Grayson ? He made people laugh as well as laughing at himself instead of making " his way " a serious issue. I used to love his shows.

Willow your preference is fine by me. It's those who are in the media like others who ram their preferences down peoples necks and go on marches etc.
Nobody here would ever dream of telling/forcing others what to do because we keep our council.

PECS Sat 15-Dec-18 11:05:47

Being kind, thoughtful and not deliberately offensive is not PC or being a snowflake. It is being a decent human being!
The use of the terms "snowflake" or "PC gone mad" is a way of justifying or dismissing unkindness or thoughtlessness. There have always been people who are more easily upset by situations or others reactions. You only have to look on all the DIL /MIL threads to see that.
The concern over the word "faggot", as a derogatory term for homosexuals, which is presumably what is being sung in the song & not referring to a bundle of sticks or a meat product is not pleasant. However if the call to ban is not from Stonewall or similar organisation we should continue to enjoy this most unChristmassy of Christmas songs!

Margs Sat 15-Dec-18 11:08:55

Just the other day on Radio 2 I heard Tom Jones warbling about "Delilah", the lyrics referring to "she was MY woman" and "I felt the knife in my hand and she laughed no more!"

May I ask what today'c current crop of politically correct Snowflakes make of that?

(And what on earth were the BBC doing playing it anyway?)

Barmeyoldbat Sat 15-Dec-18 11:14:13

as a butchers wife I use to make faggots to sell in the shop. Its an old recipe and name. The world has gone mad.

Chucky Sat 15-Dec-18 11:17:42

Apologies if anyone has already said but 1988 is 30 years ago, not 20. Kirsty McColl died 18 years ago, in December. I remembered hearing that she died after being struck by a power boat, whilst pushing her son out of the way, in an area where boats were not allowed. As a memorial to her and her bravery this song should never be banned.

GabriellaG54 Sat 15-Dec-18 11:21:21

EllanVannin
I would find it quite hard to keep my own council (Waverley) as their budget is beyond my means, therefore I will simply keep my own counsel and say nowt. grin

Tooyoungytobeagrandma Sat 15-Dec-18 11:25:25

It's 30 years since the song was released (31 when it was written). I have a gay friend who wears a t shirt with cheap lousy faggot on the front and he loves the song. I was told that the word faggot is used in Ireland for a lazy person so perhaps this is what Kirsty Mccoll meant as she was accusing him of spoiling her life in the song. I for one will still be singing it and playing it whilst at work along with all the other songs I've grown up enjoying regardless of any connotations other seem to read into the lyrics. Our heritage in music and literature as well as nursery rhymes etc is slowly being eroded to a point where we are becoming scared to say/do anything that might upset a minority/other culture. I do not advocate being rude, abusive or demeaning to anyone but I do wish that those that keep being offended on behalf of others would just .... off!

EllanVannin Sat 15-Dec-18 11:38:51

Thank God I had a wonderful past filled with good humour------that's all I can say and not the filthy humour like it is today, yet is accepted as the norm ? Mention faggot and the world and its wife are on to you like a ton of bricks. Fairy soap is a no no.
There must be a long list of forbidden words and phrases. The Alf Garnet's of this world have died a death and " Love thy Neighbour " has an entirely different approach.

What have our GC and GGC got ? A world full of restrictions ( though sadly they won't know any different ) in this PC environment.
Even nursery rhymes have been turned on their heads now. I despair.

Galen Sat 15-Dec-18 12:04:33

My mother used to make faggots. She used the ‘pluck’ of an animal al minced together with salt pepper and a packet of sage and onion stuffing. She’d then make the mix into balls and wrap them in caul before cooking them in the oven.
They were lovely and much nicer than Mr Brains

anitamp1 Sat 15-Dec-18 12:06:02

World's gone mad.

JustAGodmother Sat 15-Dec-18 12:52:08

I have a vision of a generation that can't go to concerts or comedy gigs because the bands aren't allowed to sing any of their songs with 'inappropriate' words in and the comics can't tell any of their jokes.
And just to put the cream on top no-one is allowed to applaud or whistle after their non-performances because that upsets people too!
www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-manchester-45717841

jendean Sat 15-Dec-18 12:56:27

Such rubbish, it is a wonderful song and just an inebriated couple slinging insults at each other, nothing to do with homosexuality at all.
However the one that really insults me is Wives and Lovers (see Jack Jones on You tube) the lyrics are so insulting to women "Hey little girl comb your hair, fix your makeup soon he will enter the door....etc etc. He was incredibly good looking but watching this post on You tube and listening to the sentiment, I could easily put my fist through my lap top!

Scribbles Sat 15-Dec-18 13:10:51

I wonder if there's some way of banning people who want to ban things?

(*Jendean*, I do agree about that Jack Jones song. It's nauseating.)

MissAdventure Sat 15-Dec-18 13:15:04

Well, I would comb my hair and fix my make up if love was about to enter my life, otherwise my potential lover would run for the hills!

Jalima1108 Sat 15-Dec-18 13:16:37

Being kind, thoughtful and not deliberately offensive is not PC or being a snowflake. It is being a decent human being!

But why appropriate words which had different meanings years ago - why not invent new words?

Some people these days are too easily offended on behalf of others.

Jalima1108 Sat 15-Dec-18 13:22:02

jendean - written in 1963 by Burt Bacharach and Hal David who were asked to write a song on the theme of marital infidelity to promote a film.

Nice tune but I'm sure most women ignored the words grin