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Dinner parties with contentious food

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Yammy Sun 07-Nov-21 16:49:11

Has anyone ever been to a dinner party where the food had obviously been chosen to be something that guests had either never encountered before or only liked by a certain percentage of those present on perpouse to wrong foot them? Two of mine would be jugged hare where we were told the cooking method of putting hare in a jug with its own blood and I got a plate of vertebrae, The other sauteed livers on toast before they were served we were asked who did not like liver and the ones of us who dared to admit had a half grapefruit plonked in front of us, the hosts had enviaged it would not to be everyone's taste.

Baggs Sun 07-Nov-21 20:04:57

I have the same feelings about liver, urms.

Redhead56 Sun 07-Nov-21 20:07:00

I was served with a salad which looked nice until I had something pop in my mouth. It was salmon caviar disgusting stuff even more annoying it was served by a vegan. Why would someone who ate no meat or fish or dairy give guests caviar without even asking if they would like it? I eat meat and fish both in small quantities but would never consider eating fish eggs.

kircubbin2000 Sun 07-Nov-21 20:08:19

I've twice been invited to a friend who always cooks lamb. She carves huge chunks with the blood visible in the juice. I pass it onto my sons plate.

sodapop Sun 07-Nov-21 20:11:55

We still have people for dinner and we serve 3 or 4 courses but not as often as we did. My husband likes to do the whole works when we invite people. More often now though we go out for lunch with friends much more relaxing.
That menu was awful Yammy no thought for the guests at all which is surely the point of inviting people.

JaneJudge Sun 07-Nov-21 20:12:14

I don't mind liver but it has to be trimmed properly, same with kidneys. Kidneys need to be slow cooked too otherwise they are really tough

kittylester Sun 07-Nov-21 20:16:01

My dad did it the second way baggs.

I love liver with bacon and onions, served with mash (only lambs) and kidneys.

Not so keen on whale or horse.

Baggs Sun 07-Nov-21 20:16:16

Fish roe is good stuff, very nutritious. Don't think I've ever had caviar but I have eaten other fish roe.

Perhaps your vegan host didn't know what caviar was, redhead.

grannyrebel7 Sun 07-Nov-21 20:17:29

I have never eaten rabbit or hare in my life! And to think of it cooked in its own blood! Yuk!!!

MissAdventure Sun 07-Nov-21 20:18:41

In a jug.
With the lid on it's head like a hat. shock

Urmstongran Sun 07-Nov-21 20:20:07

Ditto kitty and Baggs.
I adore this old recipe. Plain, simple & delicious with mash. In fact I made it earlier this week.
Cheap too.
The lamb’s liver was £1.19 from Sainsbury’s.
Maybe I should organise a dinner party ...
?

Baggs Sun 07-Nov-21 20:22:34

grannyrebel7

I have never eaten rabbit or hare in my life! And to think of it cooked in its own blood! Yuk!!!

All meat bleeds. It's hard not to notice this if you ever buy raw meat. You don't cook meat only in it's own blood. Even fried steak needs some fat or oil as well. Things like hare and rabbit are cooked as stews on the whole with loads of other ingredients (see recipe above for jugged hare).

What's all this eeeuw about the blood of meat? Get real!

Baggs Sun 07-Nov-21 20:23:00

its own blood

Grrr

MissAdventure Sun 07-Nov-21 20:24:05

My mum used to make rabbit stew, and I wasn't allowed to say a word.
Nor when she served stuffed hearts.

lemongrove Sun 07-Nov-21 20:31:09

Until we retired we did go to many dinner parties and mainly enjoyed them very much, with good hosts and food.
I do remember one though, where the starter was escargots....and I simply had to say that I couldn’t eat them.
Neither can I eat any shellfish and have had to say so on occasion.
Another starter was never offered, but that was ok I just drank some wine and chatted, but it isn’t hard to find out beforehand
If dinner guests have dislikes or allergies, is it?

Urmstongran Sun 07-Nov-21 20:31:52

My mum used to like cow’s stomach. It was creamy and curly?
?
Think she shook vinegar over it before she picked up her knife and fork....
Can’t think what it was known as.
I never ate any.

MissAdventure Sun 07-Nov-21 20:32:20

Tripe?

lemongrove Sun 07-Nov-21 20:32:34

I used to make rabbit stew regularly at one time, years ago, it was delicious.

MissAdventure Sun 07-Nov-21 20:33:34

I never liked it.
It was pink looking and slightly sweet.

Urmstongran Sun 07-Nov-21 20:34:35

Yes MissA! I just Googled it.
Here you go.
It smelt like wet hay. With onions.

MissAdventure Sun 07-Nov-21 20:34:43

I can remember taking one mouthful and being warned "Don't start!!!!"

Urmstongran Sun 07-Nov-21 20:35:58

Hehe!

MissAdventure Sun 07-Nov-21 20:37:09

I used to eat haslet.

Urmstongran Sun 07-Nov-21 20:38:10

From Wiki:

“Dressed tripe was a popular, nutritious and cheap dish for the British working classes from Victorian times until the latter half of the 20th century.[4][5][6] While it is still popular in many parts of the world today, the number of tripe eaters, and consequently the number of tripe dressers, in the UK has rapidly declined. Tripe has come to be regarded as a pet food, as the increased affluence of postwar Britain has reduced the appeal of this once staple food.”

looby Sun 07-Nov-21 20:38:57

I've never been to a dinner party, I've had meals at friends houses and they've eaten at mine but there wasn't anything refined or strange on offer

Amberone Sun 07-Nov-21 20:40:00

We love liver, kidneys, blood puddings, haggis. I wouldn't serve them to visitors though, I know too many people who don't eat them. I've been served rabbit and pheasant, which I'm not too keen on, but ate it.

But please don't offer me tripe, or shell fish - makes my blood run cold.