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AIBU a generation that can’t be bothered.

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Sago Mon 07-Feb-22 09:59:17

Our dreadful local paper sent one of its journalists to Aldi to see if as a mother of two children with a husband she could do a weekly shop for £60.
This till receipt showed she had purchased, ready mashed potato and carrot and swede there was also grated cheese ,microwave rice pouches and antibacterial surface wipes.

It never ceases to amaze me what rubbish people will put in their trolleys, the generation that are banging on about climate change and saving the oceans buying anti bac wipes and plastic containers of mashed veg!

Too lazy to peel,grate and mash.

AIBU?

MissAdventure Mon 07-Feb-22 20:15:40

I never feel guilty.
I try to force my grandson to have a dinner at school so I don't have to bother.
Unfortunately, lunchtime is so short, and the food queue so long, he's lucky to get a bacon roll to wolf down.

M0nica Mon 07-Feb-22 20:18:58

nexus60 we are talking about feeding a family on a very tight budget, where most families would budget and plan carefully before they went shopping, and the reporter who did the shopping was clueless and had no idea how to approach a tae in that position wouldn't buy, unless there was a compelling reason.

annodomini Mon 07-Feb-22 20:24:26

Dickens
^Schools used to teach kids to actually cook - I remember rushing down to the playground to hand over ingredients to my son who'd forgotten to mention it the night before...
Now they study Food Technology. Parents, pupils and teachers have expressed concern over the value of this part of the Curriculum,^
There is an alternative which my grandson took instead of GCSE Food Technology. He did BTech Catering and Hospitality and got a distinction which he has used to good effect by working as a chef on weekends and during holidays from Sixth Form. I've tasted his cooking and can vouch for its professional quality.

Ali08 Mon 07-Feb-22 20:31:04

Instead of a young mother they should have sent out someone who regularly cooks from scratch, not one who would be rushed to put food on the table! Lol

Hithere Mon 07-Feb-22 21:14:30

Don't fathers also feed their kids?

JaneJudge Mon 07-Feb-22 21:27:12

Hithere

Don't fathers also feed their kids?

no dear, they have much more important jobs to get on with wink <urgh>

Chardy Mon 07-Feb-22 21:46:13

annodomini

Dickens
^Schools used to teach kids to actually cook - I remember rushing down to the playground to hand over ingredients to my son who'd forgotten to mention it the night before...
Now they study Food Technology. Parents, pupils and teachers have expressed concern over the value of this part of the Curriculum,^
There is an alternative which my grandson took instead of GCSE Food Technology. He did BTech Catering and Hospitality and got a distinction which he has used to good effect by working as a chef on weekends and during holidays from Sixth Form. I've tasted his cooking and can vouch for its professional quality.

Trying to remember from the dim and distant past, I think Food Tech came in with the National Curriculum in 1989. Most younger secondary school (KS3) pupils each year do a rotation of subjects (half a term Textiles, half a term Woodwork, Food etc) within DT, and then they choose one subject for GCSE.
Regarding BTECs, I know Gavin Williamson was trying to get rid of them last summer, but prior to that I think they were not in the schools' interest because they didn't count towards the schools' published assessment (I may have remembered that incorrectly, or it may have all changed now!? Anyone with more recent knowledge, please correct what I've said.)

blue25 Mon 07-Feb-22 22:56:04

Don’t be so judgemental. You know nothing about her circumstances. We need more compassion & empathy, not judgement over such petty things.

Callistemon21 Mon 07-Feb-22 23:00:07

MissAdventure

I never feel guilty.
I try to force my grandson to have a dinner at school so I don't have to bother.
Unfortunately, lunchtime is so short, and the food queue so long, he's lucky to get a bacon roll to wolf down.

I've been there when DIL has asked DGD what she had for so-called school dinner and it was a roll or some such because there was nothing else left. They have only a short break and they are in shifts so if they're on late dinners there are only a few choices left.

Callistemon21 Mon 07-Feb-22 23:01:13

blue25

Don’t be so judgemental. You know nothing about her circumstances. We need more compassion & empathy, not judgement over such petty things.

It was a journalist doing supposed research.

It wasn't very scientific, was it ?

MissAdventure Mon 07-Feb-22 23:02:19

Yes, exactly the same here.
It's not really acceptable, is it?

Callistemon21 Mon 07-Feb-22 23:08:43

No. DIL said she might as well have done a packed lunch. They have dinners 2 or 3 times a week but the choice is very poor on late sitting.

Granmarderby10 Tue 08-Feb-22 02:24:33

I feel so lucky to have had realschool dinners in the 60s/70s….yes even the rubber stew and boiled dock leaf —cabbage— with a proper dinner hour that felt much longer somehow?

nanna8 Tue 08-Feb-22 05:13:49

I find if you go down the bottom of the garden and dig you get these lovely protein based long pinkish brown things which go well on a barbeque with a nice grass and nettle salad. And it's all free!

Grandmabatty Tue 08-Feb-22 08:55:25

Nanna8 ??

Germanshepherdsmum Tue 08-Feb-22 10:37:19

MissAdventure

I never feel guilty.
I try to force my grandson to have a dinner at school so I don't have to bother.
Unfortunately, lunchtime is so short, and the food queue so long, he's lucky to get a bacon roll to wolf down.

That's awful MissA. Do you mean he sometimes has just a bacon roll at lunch time to last him until his evening meal? Which I hope is a proper cooked meal?

JennyCee Tue 08-Feb-22 10:40:55

I think it’s a sign of the times, but it also could show that this age group haven’t much a clue how to cook. Shouldn’t we be
Campaigning for Home Economics, especially cookery to be brought back into schools, alongside knowledge of food etc?

Callistemon21 Tue 08-Feb-22 10:41:34

I think proper school dinners are a thing of the past.

polnan Tue 08-Feb-22 10:42:21

I went to a Girls Grammar School in Birmingham, 1948 I think it may have been or `47

an academic school, yet my first year was Cookery class, and my mother had already taught me cooking

now I admit I have not read all the posts here.
but I often wonder about the "poverty" the people who claim poverty, I would like to see the budget, what the money is actually spent on.

but then, life has changed so very much now hasn`t it,, we mustn`t forget that! technology, ie. mobile phones etc. necessities, and so expensive....

Yellowmellow Tue 08-Feb-22 10:44:21

A very sweeping statement to say a whole generation shop this way . Some may but a lot don't. Its very hard as life has changed with majority of women working. I don't think it's anyone's place to be judgemental. Neither is it fair to label a whole generation.

hilz Tue 08-Feb-22 10:45:16

This had me laughing out loud Coastpath. So true how some things can be misrepresented.
I think things are changing though with more people cooking from scratch and growing their own. Enjoying cooking and far more experimental with new recipes than I was bought up on.

Cossy Tue 08-Feb-22 10:47:43

Yup think you’re being a bit unreasonable ! I worked full time (still am) and brought up 4 children, husband worked very long hours and had a long commute, I did not have long maternity leave either approx 12 weeks and with one child just 6 weeks. Lots of people actually don’t have great cooking facilities either

Tanjamaltija Tue 08-Feb-22 10:49:43

Frozen onions and bagged salads and microwave rice avoid waste and save on fuel, although they seem wasteful. You don'y buy different greens that will go to waste, the rice is pre-cooked so you can add it to the salad, and the onions will do for baked food, pasta sauces, pies and broth. The reporter either does not shop for that amount, or does not do the cooking in her household.

Fernhillnana Tue 08-Feb-22 10:50:00

It’s such a shame proper cooking isn’t taught in schools any more. I was lucky going to a girls grammar where we all learnt to cook. My children have been bossing it in the kitchen since they were two years old and are both great scratch cooks.

Beanie654321 Tue 08-Feb-22 10:50:08

Well what can I say. Due to allergies it is safer for me to cook all meals from scratch. I cook hubby carnivore and me vegan, yes even hubbies is made from fresh products. But and a big but I have the time now I'm retired to source fresh products and cook every thing including bread. I see my children, they do try the same but with work, children, children's outside activities and so much more I can understand buying things that they can just pull out of fridge, like grated cheese, and cook. They don't buy ready meals.