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Felt sorry for the chef

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SueDonim Mon 07-Feb-22 15:35:31

The chef indeed is a star. It’s an onerous task, providing food for people with allergies.

My daughter’s flatmate is severely nut-allergic and can’t even go into a premises where nuts are served. She can’t visit cafes if they serve almond milk, for example, because the risk of cross-contamination is too great.

I’ve learnt a lot about nut allergies over the past couple of years, it’s an absolute minefield of label-reading and even watching what we eat, if we’re going to be seeing her.

Callistemon21 Mon 07-Feb-22 15:28:04

This is why I don't do dinner parties any more!

For some people, eg coeliacs, eating the wrong thing could be dangerous but a lot of people seem to have allergies now?

Most establishments offer vegan dishes now too.

felice Mon 07-Feb-22 15:23:39

I am so glad you felt for the Chef, I am one, now retired but still cooking for groups and events.
I always send an email or message of some kind to any I am catering for asking for allergies and intolerances.
The number of times someone arrives and says 'oh I cannot eat that I am ***** FREE'.
I Keep a record and show them their reply.
One young woman stormed out of my house as I had not catered specifically for her needs, there were 54 guests and different tables for all needs.
Your Chef is a Star.flowers

midgey Mon 07-Feb-22 14:41:56

That is a real recommendation for the establishment! Great to hear the chef was so helpful.

Teacheranne Mon 07-Feb-22 14:13:45

I went out for Sunday lunch yesterday with a group of ten friends. Only three of us did not ask the waitress about dietary needs and when the chef came over to go through some options, he was bombarded with questions.

We had vegan, gluten free, dairy free, vegetarian, various allergies and something else which I can’t remember. The chef was very accommodating and took lots of notes but had to amend so many dishes in different ways that it must have taken a lot longer to prepare our order. The hardest was a gluten free vegan but she had taken the trouble to phone the restaurant first to make sure her needs could be met.

I really did feel sorry for the chef who did an amazing job as we all enjoyed our meals.