It was tradition to keep the top tier of a wedding cake for the christening of the first child, but that arose pre reliable contraception
I think the advice then was to chip off the royal icing to re-ice the cake. I'd think it would survive OK in a freezer, but in any event a rich fruit cake, especially one that had been 'fed' with alcohol, should easily last until next Christmas. (and you could periodically feed it with a tablespoon or so of brandy, hic
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Terrible relationship with DIL - am I the problem?
difficult relationship with son
