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Family Get Together, any suggestions please?

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Marriedalongtime Sat 13-Jul-24 13:59:23

Can you help with suggestions please? We are hosting a family get together next weekend where there will be some young children, a vegan and a pregnant lady among the guests.

We had been hoping the weather might be good enough for us to have a BBQ but it’s not looking good. So plan B needs to be be a finger food / buffet table. However, I have got complete brain fog as to what I can make. I’ve done quiches in the past and they never get eaten so they’re out.

Can anyone suggest anything a bit different please? Thank you.

Sago Tue 16-Jul-24 22:33:31

A huge oven tray of roasted vegetables, falafel balls and wraps are perfect for vegans.
Green salad, feta and watermelon salad, coleslaw lots of really good quality butchers sausages to oven cook.
Big dish of new potatoes.
A big bottle of homemade dressing and lots of mayo.
To finish, big bowl of summer fruits and vegan ice cream.

teabagwoman Tue 16-Jul-24 21:08:19

Matildamay when I was catering it was at work and the budget I was given wouldn’t have run to M&S. These days thankfully I rarely have to cater for anyone.

MatildaMay Tue 16-Jul-24 16:28:02

teabagwoman

*married*, is it possible to ask the vegan guest for suggestions? Back in the day when I had to cater for 30 including vegans and gluten free baked potatoes where my standby.

There are plenty of Vegan foods at Marks and Spencer, and most supermarket sell vegan, and other types of food that are for people with different types of allergies.

It is not like the old days when there was no variety. It may take longer to find them in the supermarkets but I am sure the shelf will be labelled to tell you what is what.

MatildaMay Tue 16-Jul-24 16:25:37

loopyloo

Order food from m&s?

Definitely,

When putting on a family do, it is always a buffet, never a sit down meal as we have young grandchildren and they love to come and go with their little plates.

I place an order and then go and collect it.

Witzend Tue 16-Jul-24 10:52:05

If forks are allowed, I’ve always found a macaroni pie very popular. Basically like macaroni cheese, but with eggs and baked, so it can be cut into squares.
IIRC, 1 lb each of macaroni and good strong Cheddar, 1 pt milk, 3 eggs, salt, pepper and a good dollop of English mustard. Bake at 160 fan for 45 mins ish until set but not rock hard.
There’s a recipe online somewhere.

teabagwoman Sun 14-Jul-24 10:34:38

married, is it possible to ask the vegan guest for suggestions? Back in the day when I had to cater for 30 including vegans and gluten free baked potatoes where my standby.

Grammaretto Sun 14-Jul-24 10:22:38

I am vegetarian so the only meat was cooked sausage. It was it Italian week at Lidl!!

Calendargirl Sun 14-Jul-24 10:19:43

NotSpaghetti

Calendargirl the Prosecco was "pub prices" as in a pub.
I expect lots of pubs charge that much.

Much less in a supermarket, obviously.

Yes, I realise it is so much more expensive in a pub, but what a racket!

It’ll only be run-of-the-mill stuff, and no one will be any the wiser if it’s cheap stuff or dear, as it’s just for the toast, I assume.

I would ask about alternatives.

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NotSpaghetti Sun 14-Jul-24 10:12:19

Calendargirl the Prosecco was "pub prices" as in a pub.
I expect lots of pubs charge that much.

Much less in a supermarket, obviously.

Jewelle Sun 14-Jul-24 10:10:35

I’m sorry to go off topic OP, but this question reminds me of the questions we used to have for domestic science exams back in the day, where there were a selection of people, all of who required different foods! grin

Jaxjacky Sun 14-Jul-24 10:05:49

My mistake there Chardy

Chardy Sun 14-Jul-24 10:03:24

Sorry to be a veggie killjoy, but there's an awful lot of meat here, it's off-putting just reading it. Personally I love a homemade quiche but please label what's in it.
Plenty of baguettes, vegan spread and non-meat/fish dippy stuff.
Veggie pizza.
Fresh fruit salad for pudding
Btw a vegan won't eat frittata, eggs.

Don't be cooking on the day. Have a lovely time.

Norah Sat 13-Jul-24 20:21:51

French=fresh

Norah Sat 13-Jul-24 20:21:20

I typically roast gammon the day before, chill, slice. Make a few loaves of breads. Make a few salads (we like Italian potato salad, rice artichoke salad, veg salad, green salad, and fruit salad). New potatoes, some cheeses, nuts, olives, tapenade, hummus - with dippers / spreaders, and biscuits for the children. Ours love french strawberry biscuits (currently). And Summer pud for the adults.

Grammaretto Sat 13-Jul-24 18:24:02

I hosted 15 of my family recently partly in the garden -we put up a gazebo, and a table laid inside with buffet.
Homemade Quiche, cold meats, chorizo etc olives and pickles, crisps, baguettes, lovely cheeses, salads and I baked a cake and made a pavlova.
It was all eaten!!

Drinks were outside. I bought wine and fizz (prosecco from Lidl) my DS bought beer and probably paid for some of the food.
I enjoyed it very much.
Actually my biggest expense was buying a couple of new garden chairs. It stayed dry but could have been warmer.

Ever optimistic!
I hope you have a lovely time.

Marriedalongtime Sat 13-Jul-24 17:48:18

crazyH

I didn’t mean to hijack the thread . Sorry OP

No problem at all.

crazyH Sat 13-Jul-24 16:56:47

I didn’t mean to hijack the thread . Sorry OP

Maggiemaybe Sat 13-Jul-24 16:53:25

Good idea. You might get a discount for ordering so many. 🤞

crazyH Sat 13-Jul-24 16:52:16

Yes Maggiemaybe - I guess it is - thinking of calling the Landlady tomorrow and negotiating the price of the Prosecco.

Maggiemaybe Sat 13-Jul-24 16:42:46

I assume that’s the bar price, crazyH? Still, it’ll work out expensive for you for so many.

crazyH Sat 13-Jul-24 16:33:47

Calendargirl I thought so too - might change my mind about the Prosecco

shysal Sat 13-Jul-24 16:29:47

My family has an assortment of dietary requirements, so I do finger food and salads with little colour coded cocktail stick flags to state what they are free from.
For children I have done little pizza bases with DIY toppings served separately, although cooking them to order was a bit of a pain.
For dessert I have done home made individual meringue nests with fill-it-yourself ingredients.
I hope you have an enjoyable day.

Oreo Sat 13-Jul-24 16:24:30

Nannynoodles

I would do salads, French bread, new potatoes, bread sticks as a base for all and then do meat, salmon, sausage rolls, cheeses etc for the meat eaters plus hummus and falafels for the vegan.
Just rol pastry is vegan so you could do a vegetable tart for all and some of M&S samosas are also vegan.
In my family the vegans don’t like the meat substitutes or vegan cheeses so I wouldn’t bother with them but plant based butter is ok.
Young children will probably be ok with bread sticks, hummus, cheese and cut up veg.

Sounds good to me.😃

Maggiemaybe Sat 13-Jul-24 16:18:57

Some great suggestions for buffet food here, but I don’t think anyone’s mentioned pizza? It’s so easy and always the first thing the younger generation look for at our family gatherings.

Mollygo Sat 13-Jul-24 16:10:23

* JdotJ*
^ I'd ask everyone to bring their own food!^

I do that more often than I used to.
I tried sending out a menu of what would be on offer, but though most invitees were happy with that, a few asked if I ^could possibly do some . . . as they didn’t really like . . .
Now I say what’s on offer and ask if people can let me know if they’re bringing something else.
I’m really happy that it’s only 2-3 times a year.