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How Many Courses Do You Have in a Restaurant?

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TerriBull Wed 22-Jul-26 10:11:58

Once upon a time, it might have been three. These days increasingly I'm finding one is enough, just the main. That became apparent whilst away on holiday. So often, by the time we're handed the pudding menu we're stuffed! I do miss puddings though, so much so, one evening we just asked in one of our hotels if we could just have a pudding, they did oblige.

When do you find you reach your limit.........food wise that is?

Delene100 Sat 25-Jul-26 12:44:19

Doodledog

A friend of mine often has a starter and a pudding with no main. I do like a starter, but these days tend to go straight to the main and see if there's room for the pudding when I've eaten it.

Same for me.

Usedtobeblonde Sat 25-Jul-26 10:57:01

I only have a main course as my appetite has diminished, sad because I love good food.
Last evening I went to an Italian restaurant with family friends and chose sea bass.
It was delicious but two large pieces were too much and I had to leave a quarter of it to my dismay.
I wish more places sold small portions.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 25-Jul-26 10:43:24

I can eat an entire Tasting Menu type of meal 5 or 7 courses as they are tiny, different and tasty.

Us7DH and I share a starter if we are at one of our local restaurants. If we are in a more upmarket restaurant where the portions are usually smaller then I can manage a starter and main, and sometimes a dessert if it is one of my favourites or I pinch some of DH’s cheese course.

Juneandarchie1 Sat 25-Jul-26 10:33:04

I only usually have a main, but last night I pushed the boat out and treated my birthday partner to a 5 course fish taster menu.
It was absolutely delicious and well worth the extra money. We both came away feeling not full, but very satisfied.
Excellent meal, and I want to do more of that kind of thing rather than an average type meal that anyone could cook.

Jaxjacky Fri 24-Jul-26 21:38:52

Main course, preferably fish, a dessert if I’ve space.
I usually look online before we go, our favourite pub/restaurant today has rhubarb crumble, summer pudding and Elton mess along with other choices.
Last time we went I had turbot followed by blackcurrant sorbet.

Oreo Fri 24-Jul-26 20:35:52

Pineapple fritters! Rum Baba!😋

TerriBull Fri 24-Jul-26 20:33:36

Oreo

I too wish that pubs and restaurants would be a bit more inventive where puds are concerned.
Where’s the seasonal fruit tart or crumble? Syrup tart? Lemon merangue?

Banish the sticky toffee pudding please. Too ubiquitous, too boring!

Oreo Fri 24-Jul-26 20:17:07

I too wish that pubs and restaurants would be a bit more inventive where puds are concerned.
Where’s the seasonal fruit tart or crumble? Syrup tart? Lemon merangue?

Redrobin51 Fri 24-Jul-26 20:11:58

Normally 2, a main and a pudding.

Oreo Fri 24-Jul-26 20:01:07

TerriBull

I do wish restaurants, not all, wouldn't withhold the pudding menu, only bringing it along almost as an afterthought after the mains. Then I feel I could make an informed choice. If there is something really delectable on that, I'd rein in what I'm having first. If we agree on a pudding and there is a smidgen of room left, then we'll ask for two spoons, that's quite a common practice I do believe, in fact some restaurants will automatically bring two if only one orders on the assumption it is to be shared........not always grin

Similarly at home, I often used to make a pudding when we had a Sunday roast, but again there isn't room. I just have a well stocked freezer for ice creams, Magnum style the Aldi alternatives are just as appreciated by the grandchildren these days......and £££ cheaper when accumulating quite a few.

Anyone who aims their spoon in my direction with a dessert gets short shrift.😉

Rocketstop2 Fri 24-Jul-26 18:40:27

Depends on the place I guess, but usually just a main course.In some places the sweet choices can be a bit boring so that helps me to refrain ! Only so many brownies, sticky toffee puds and tiramisu cake you can take in one lifetime !!

Samsara1 Fri 24-Jul-26 09:19:41

We often share a starter as DH likes that, small main if offered and only if pudding a crumble to share. I like the restaurants that offer a small pud with coffee (inclusive).

pably15 Fri 24-Jul-26 09:10:09

I can't eat 3 courses now,I'll have starter and main or main and sweet

nanna8 Fri 24-Jul-26 02:02:37

No, it’s not fair I agree.
I usually have two because I like the desserts . Sometimes just an entree and dessert. At lunchtime often just one, don’t get hungry until the evening these days. I was just thinking, how often do you see a fat 85 plus person? They either cark it or the metabolism takes over I think.

Wyllow3 Fri 24-Jul-26 01:25:42

Alas our metabolism slows as we get older. ie burning calories up. Not fair.

Lovetopaint037 Fri 24-Jul-26 00:52:24

I can only eat a main and possibly a light dessert. I used to always have three courses but for the last few years the starter has been abandoned. The strange thing is that I eat less but have put on weight.

MissAdventure Thu 23-Jul-26 20:17:21

I've never thought of having a starter instead of a main.
I only usually go to the Harvester, and a lot of their starters include nice "picky bits".
I reckon I could have a starter and a dessert. (and the salad, too, of course!)

Barbadosbelle Thu 23-Jul-26 20:12:56

Poppyred

Just a main course for me too since I had a month in hospital a year ago with Pancreatitis. I was always a 3-courses gal when we went out to dine, but it seems to have changed my eating patterns.

However later when home we do have an ice-cream lolly as a belated pudd'. I've always found that vanilla ice-cream acts as a digestive for me and I think that's possibly why I've never ever had indigestion.
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MartavTaurus Thu 23-Jul-26 17:36:47

Whitewavemark2

Depends on the restaurant.

High end - all courses on offer.

Reasonable - maybe starter and main.

Cheap and cheerful - one - maybe main or starter.

Cheap and not so cheerful - I avoid like the plague.

It seems that the less you may the bigger the portions😄😄

This.

3 or 4 courses in high end restaurants.
Each one complements the other.

Wyllow3 Thu 23-Jul-26 16:21:53

Actually a favourite as I'm not into sweet stuff much is to order two or three starters for the variety.

Wyllow3 Thu 23-Jul-26 16:20:35

Whitewavemark2

Depends on the restaurant.

High end - all courses on offer.

Reasonable - maybe starter and main.

Cheap and cheerful - one - maybe main or starter.

Cheap and not so cheerful - I avoid like the plague.

It seems that the less you may the bigger the portions😄😄

This is the point really. You go to your bog standard cheap and cheerful pub meal and it's a huge plate of food with chips offered. It's not just high end that have small portions.

I'm on holiday in September and was asked if I want the evening meal. Three courses I thought oh no. I'll look at the pubs around this "conference centre that takes guests too"

Then I looked at the pix and saw small elegantly laid out portions tho its a pretty ordinary "northern" menu. and of course starters can be a hearty soup or a slice of melon or slim bit of toast and veggie or meat pate - and pudding fresh fruit salad.

The pubs nearby would have saved me a bit but huge huge everything. And if you are staying at the place you can take your pud up for later.

Mojack26 Thu 23-Jul-26 16:11:18

2 max either starter or dessert! Usually dessert as that's a treat...lol

Patsy70 Thu 23-Jul-26 15:39:39

I either have two starters or just the main meal. Portions are so large these days and I hate wasting food.

missdeke Thu 23-Jul-26 15:27:46

When there is a dessert I really want I have a starter as my main then the dessert, otherwise it's just the main.

merrellina Thu 23-Jul-26 15:25:08

Friends of mine usually have a main each and have a pudding with 2 spoons ! I can only manage a main.