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Anger and heart attacks

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petra Sat 08-Mar-14 15:29:53

It all depends on what you class as angry. In my younger days I could have 'The red mist' come down. At one time I 'lost' about an hour of time in a rage.
In this episode I broke my ex h ankle after I had found his latest girlfriend hiding in my house. I have thrown someone down the stairs, for which I'm deeply ashamed.
There have been many more, but I won't bore you. Now, I just hurl abuse at ( some ) politicle leaders and right now, heads of NHS trusts.

Lona Thu 06-Mar-14 16:14:57

janerowena Mine was always angry too hmm
He is still breathing and bullying, but I live in hopes!

JessM Thu 06-Mar-14 07:49:20

I guess there is something enjoyable about anger - very energising. So some people may be slightly addicted to it.

janerowena Wed 05-Mar-14 12:38:14

My Ex was always angry. He is now 62 and unfortunately still alive. Oh well, it's early days yet.

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 05-Mar-14 11:20:33

My son always try to calm me down when I get angry with him. AND I DO!!!! Grrrrrr!

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 05-Mar-14 11:19:16

Grannyknot grin

Grannyknot Wed 05-Mar-14 11:04:39

I've also got a "moderately road rage husband" in the driver's seat cursing and exclaiming at other drivers, and it is immensely irritating for the passenger (me) - because he seems less inclined to do that when there are others in the car e.g. his new daughter-in-law! Which of course I do point out.

So - I've told him that given that it increases the risk of heart attacks and that he has had one already! - that I think there's a risk that he may have one while driving, so next road trip I'll fly/train it to wherever we are going and see him there (not wanting to miss out on the holiday LOL).

He is so critical of other drivers, that I no longer drive when we're together, as I can sense his silent criticism of my driving.

Otherwise, I quite like having him as a husband!

KatyK Wed 05-Mar-14 10:08:03

Jingl - I agree with you. My DH gets SO angry at times, especially when driving. I have often said to him 'is it really worth a heart attack'.

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 05-Mar-14 10:00:36

I thought we all knew perfectly well that getting too angry is likely to give you a heart attack. Am I the only one to say to their DH, "Calm down for goodness sake. You'll give yourself a heart attack" (mostly when driving hmm)?

This seems to be the most pointless piece of research anyone has done for a long time.

Aka Wed 05-Mar-14 09:55:10

A good point petallus ...I suppose it also depends on the degree of anger you feel and how long you hang on to it?

petallus Wed 05-Mar-14 09:08:27

I wonder which is the most dangerous, anger that is expressed or anger that is bottled up.

JessM Wed 05-Mar-14 07:36:16

Apparently it is not just in the movies that anger is associated with increased heart attack risk.
Further down the article they talk about 5 anger episodes a day. Wow. If I (or DH) had 5 a year that would be surprising. There is a huge range isn't there in how often people lose their temper.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-26416153