As a rule Phoenix you should never put anything in your ear until you have seen your GP as, if it is an infection, you could make the problem worse.
If you are pretty sure it is wax, pour a tiny amount of warm almond oil into your ear, tilt your head to the side and massage just below your ear to work the wax down.
Two more suggestions, sucking half a lemon will get the saliva juices going to release any blockage or, have you tried holding your nose and 'blowing' as hard as possible. This can also clear the wax. Don't start messing about with a cotton bud though. Big No No.
HTH