I don't like people who preach. I gave up smoking/drinking/over eating and I think you should too types. However, I really feel like preaching on this one. We had a horrible year last year with the diagnosis - blood tests, examinations, bone scan, MRI scan, pelvic scan, a biopsy, the shock of the diagnosis, 37 days of radiotherapy, the stress of waiting for the final result (50 hospital visits in 10 months) but it was worth it. My DH is now fit and well. He just has to go back every 6 months to ensure the PSA doesn't go back up again - they are not expecting it to and are pleased with him. He is diabetic too but the blood tests he has for this have never included a PSA. Fortunately, if he has a problem he goes to get it checked quickly (he is not always at the doctors but he won't leave anything to chance, unlike me who is a scaredy cat). During his treatment he found out everything he possibly could about his illness. I have a friend whose husband has prostate cancer and doesn't want to know anything. He just has the treatment and hopes for the best because he can't believe he has cancer. Everyone reacts differently. My DH is very realistic. He has never said 'why me?' rather he says 'why not?'. Better to go for the test and get it sorted rather than what could be a very different outcome. I have always been the sort to think 'oh it won't be anything, I'll leave it' but on this occasion it was, and it's been sorted. The number of men we met at the radiotherapy centre, new ones coming in day after day makes you realise how widespread it is and yes I agree that not all people with high PSA levels have cancer. There can be other causes. Apologies for the long post.