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So, a phoenix went to the Doctors.......

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Anne58 Wed 15-Apr-15 16:01:14

For an assessment as to how I was getting on with the new dose of Dosulepin after 3 months. I told him that I was feeling a bit better, but was concerned about my short term memory. He asked for some examples and I said , "Oh you know, the usual things, thinking of something that should go on the shopping list, by the time I get downstairs I can't remember what it was, also when doing a crossword I see 2 clues to which I know the answer, but by the time I have filled in the first one, I forget what the second one was"

I thought he would say it was an age thing, but he said he would take some blood and send it off for various tests, and please would I book an appointment for 2 weeks time and come in to run through some dementia tests shock I was a bit confuddled re the bloods,but sure enough it turns out that blood testing is quite common for this sort of thing.

I went back today, and he said all the tests done on the blood samples were fine, in fact my cholesterol had come down slightly.smile

He then went on to the other tests. Now,I had mentioned to a friend that I was having this done, and she said that her BIL had gone through them recently, and part of it was reciting the alphabet backwards shock I'll admit that I had practiced a bit, so was quite miffed when he didn't ask me to do it. (by the way, even with practice I still wasn't very good at a backward alphabet, and had thought of doing my party piece, which is singing "How much is that doggy in the window" backwards, try it, the words still fit the tune, if you know what I mean grin )

Anyway, I thought I had done reasonably well, but at the end he said that he did think it ought to be investigated a bit more.

He is sending me for a scan. Yes, I'm a bit taken aback, but also thankful that I have such a good GP who is not only thorough, but also listens to his patients, rather than dismissing them out of hand as it seems so many others do.

Gagagran Fri 17-Apr-15 06:58:57

Excellent post Falconbird! I agree totally. wink

Falconbird Fri 17-Apr-15 06:47:37

I think the country has gone early onset Dementia mad. When you stop and think how much more we have to cope with than previous ageing generations it's amazing.

We have to remember a huge amount of numbers, passwords and so on. Learn skills for coping with mobile phones, Tablets, complicated TVs, cope with roads that are busier than they've ever been, do baby sitting which involves a lot of lifting heavy toddlers, getting baby seats into the back of cars etc.,

When my old mum did babysitting for me in the 70s and 80s in meant her sitting quietly with the newspaper eating a lunch I had prepared for her, while the children played around her on their best behaviour.

When we babysit most of us have to do everything the parents do, although personally my brain is often reeling and my back hurting.

Give us a break - early onset dementia maybe, it more likely to be body and brain fatigue from coping brilliantly in this crazy technological age.

Keep going my friends - we are doing a wonderful job. flowers

Anne58 Fri 17-Apr-15 00:08:28

Don't you just luuurve the way things go off at a tangent/divert from topic/add other aspects,/become inane ramblings- Ooops, that's me! blush

Some of you are as mad as a box of frogs, (in the nicest possible way!) some are serious, some contentious, some do the best sort of connected/rambling off point (that makes me think, Radio 4, Wednesday, around 9am ish, Libby Perves, Mid Week, very random group of guests, and listening to her trying desperately to make some sort of link between the speakers is sometimes hilarious, sometimes cringeworthy !)

Oh heck, if my brain scan patterns are anything like this post, I think I'm a lost cause!

Anne58 Fri 17-Apr-15 00:00:04

grin to jingl

annsixty Thu 16-Apr-15 22:08:28

Very little sadly. In our case our GP has never seen or asked to see my H since diagnosis, 16 months ago.

Mishap Thu 16-Apr-15 22:05:35

But can they do anything for all these people they are diagnosing!?

janeainsworth Thu 16-Apr-15 19:59:50

I love hellebores as much as the next Gransnetter, but coming back to the OP, according to Pulse, 'GPs record 25% hike in dementia cases since introduction of 'cash for diagnosis' scheme'

Just fancy that shock

Iam64 Thu 16-Apr-15 18:59:03

I love hellebores. Thanks (not) to the neighbour who planted leylandi along his side of our fence, I've had to replace many of the plants that previously thrived there. I have hellebores in all colours and a number of hostas which I keep in pots with copper foil around them in an attempt to deter slugs. Of course the leylandi is now smothered in ivy so we have more snails than I'd wish for.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 16-Apr-15 18:56:43

grin. You daft bugger. no wonder your doc reckons you're bonkers grin

Anne58 Thu 16-Apr-15 18:52:55

Wow jingl you've got talking hellebores! You could make a fortune. Just imagine, a plant saying "Oh no, no water for me, thank you, I've had quite enough all ready" or perhaps, "Erm, excuse me, getting a bit cramped here, could you possibly divide my clump?"

AshTree Thu 16-Apr-15 18:14:00

I love hellebores! Only sorry that they grow in shady spots where you can't really see them. We have the dark dusky pink ones, and same paler pink. They can be beautifully marked - the white ones with pink spots are my particular favourite. And they have such lovely stamens but, of course, none of this is obvious unless you get down on your knees and look up at them from ground level grin

Mishap Thu 16-Apr-15 18:02:51

Mine are such a dark colour that you can barely see the blooms. I will look out for some others, as they clearly thrive in the spot where they are growing.

TriciaF Thu 16-Apr-15 17:49:41

Hellebores are one of my favourite flowers - I have a greeny-white one which has been flowering since Dec. and still going strong.
There's a tiny pale green one along the stream where I sometimes walk, comes up Feb-March every year - I have a photo but doubt if I can put it on here. Try later.

annodomini Thu 16-Apr-15 16:10:16

My hellebores are all along the fence, lots of them, pink and white which all flower at the same time. They look as if they have been planted there by design which couldn't be further from the truth.

rosequartz Thu 16-Apr-15 16:04:31

Oh grin

I thought posters were trying to persuade me that they aren't boring!

They're OK , I can see a pink clump from where I am sitting and I really should be out there pulling up the numerous seedlings as one or two are enough .....

Mishap Thu 16-Apr-15 15:58:21

But they are boring - at least ours are! Just plain dull. I must look out for some white ones.

Liz46 Thu 16-Apr-15 15:52:12

Yes pompa. I was given some by my aunt over 40 years ago. I have since given many away and have about 50 that I am trying to find homes for at the moment. They are so expensive in the garden centre. I have seen some larger ones for £14!

Similarly I think every tomato seed has taken this year and we have far too many little plants.

Sorry, we have gone a bit off subject but then that's the way conversation goes sometimes. We forget what we were supposed to be discussing aah - back on subject - forgetfulness.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 16-Apr-15 15:52:05

Yes, I know that.

I just like talking hellebores.

rosequartz Thu 16-Apr-15 15:50:47

It was supposed to be an aide memoire rather than a description

Hellebore - hell it's boring! [ grin]

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 16-Apr-15 15:48:19

Yes! I had one in a container by my pond. Was delighted to see it had self seeded into a bonny 'free standing" plant this year! (All plants with flowers on 'em welcome rounds here) Except for the dreaded bears breeches! Why did I ever plant one of those!

pompa Thu 16-Apr-15 15:43:07

Once you have hellebores, you will have them for life, they seed everywhere.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 16-Apr-15 15:36:25

There is an all green one called the stinking hellebore.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 16-Apr-15 15:35:32

You've got the Christmas Rose (white) and then comes the Lenten Rose (purple) a bit later.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 16-Apr-15 15:33:38

I went to a NT garden yesterday where they had white hellebores in with other white flowers in a white garden. Looked lovely. I used to think they were boring but they grow on you with age. Well, not exactly grow on you YKWIM

Mishap Thu 16-Apr-15 15:18:50

Isn't it just! Do they come in any brighter colours?