washing intimate places

I detach the shower head and give a good slosh!! I would not presume to say anything about babies today its all different from when I had mine- we used soap and water I don't think they do now probably all wipes.

Never inside. Water on the outside. The vagina has its own delicate ph balance, easily disrupted which can lead to infection.

No I've never washed more than the outer parts , I agree with ninathenana only cleaned my daughters more thoroughly if they were soiled.
The inner parts are self cleaning and applying soaps to the inner parts only upsets the natural bacterial balance and encourages soreness or infection as long as you wash yourself clean and wear clean underwear everyday it shouldn't be necessary.

Water only, just on the outside.
I would never have dreamt of washing DD in that area when she was no longer in nappies.

I wash, but only with water.

I wash also

I wash.