My youngest daughter inherited a condition called Beta Thalassaemia Trait from my husband. This means that although her blood iron levels are normal she has a low haemoglobin. She had no symptoms before she had her first child nearly 4 years ago. During that pregnancy she experienced extreme tiredness, breathlessness and chest pain. Since having her daughter these have continued but most doctors she sees say that a thalassaemia trait does not cause symptoms. Now she is 3 months pregnant and really suffering. She cannot hold a conversation without gasping for breath and suffers dizzy spells and looks awful. I have been with her to some appointments and the medics either know little about her condition and advise taking iron tablets (quite dangerous in someone with thalassaemia) or just dismiss the symptoms. She needs a referral to a haematologist but no-one is interested in doing this (although in fact the last haematologist she saw was one who said thalassaemia trait causes no symptoms). Her GP says she is now under the care of midwives and the obstetrician, who she hasn't yet seen. The midwives seem only interested in whether she is in an abusive relationship! (she isn't. Husband incredibly supportive)
My question is, how can I help my mild and polite daughter express herself more emphatically and demand better treatment for herself and her baby?
Sorry for such a long post.
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