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harrigran Sun 05-Feb-17 09:59:08

Having spent six months visiting a chemo unit I never came across this kind of patient, perhaps she was so incredibly important that she had to soldier on regardless.

Teetime Sun 05-Feb-17 09:29:24

I liked it - well written I thought. Even if this is this lady's way of coping with her predicament she should still have respect for others and their situation.

thatbags Sun 05-Feb-17 09:28:38

Scathing writing (that the woman in question may never see anyhow) is not the same as being scathing to someone's face.

And anyway, a bit of scathingness is sometimes exactly what's needed, directly or indirectly. In this case it was indirect and therefore totally harmless.

thatbags Sun 05-Feb-17 09:26:31

He wasn't scathing to the woman, just letting others know how he felt. And it seems to me his feelings were perfectly reasonable about the woman's selfish behaviour. Some people don't know when they are being hellishly annoying. Writing like this gets the message across in a creative way without any personal attacks.

Christinefrance Sun 05-Feb-17 09:14:36

We all have different ways of coping with illness and maybe this is how the lady keeps herself sane. A quiet word maybe to let her know she is disturbing others but no need to be quite so scathing.

PRINTMISS Sun 05-Feb-17 09:09:53

Though it is an odd thing to say - that was a great read! How someone can continue to write like that and feel so ill, I have no idea.

ffinnochio Sun 05-Feb-17 07:46:47

Great blog. Good to read chemo didn't kill off his humour. smile

thatbags Sun 05-Feb-17 06:48:48

"Chemo days can be long and boring, and people deal with that in their own special way. Some read, some fiddle with phones or watch stuff on their iPads, and others are so utterly knackered that all they can do is sleep — especially towards the end of a session.
One woman, however, has decided she’s not going to let a pesky all-day hospital appointment get in the way of her VERY IMPORTANT WORK, and is channelling Phoebe in that that “What If” episode of Friends by furiously typing and having endless loud, annoying Skype calls about business and spreadsheets and targets and what-have-you.
If you’re ever unfortunate enough to find yourself in a chemo ward, please do not do this because everyone else there will think you’re a massive arsehole. As someone with cancer on the outside world, you will be endlessly indulged because you’re the sick one, but in here we’re all on a level playing field, and we’re seriously thinking about staggering over there and vomiting on your laptop."

by Paul Lang medium.com/@rudemrlang/chemoversary-6562fd7a9f8f#.q4i28gb33. @rudemrlang