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Mental Health Awareness Week

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grannyactivist Wed 10-May-17 02:47:14

There's been very little about this in the press this year, but the article below talks about breaking down the silence about men's mental health. Suicide is the single biggest killer of men under the age of 45 in the UK and yet it took SIX MONTHS from first referral to get an appointment for a suicidal young man to see a psychiatrist and would have been at least a further YEAR for treatment from a clinical psychologist if relatives hadn't stepped in to pay for private treatment.

There's not much point in asking men (or anyone else) to seek help if there isn't any to be had!! metro.co.uk/2017/05/09/this-exhibition-is-breaking-down-the-silence-around-mens-mental-health-6626211/#ixzz4gdTrgiX1

silverlining48 Wed 10-May-17 14:11:16

Lets hope that current increasing publicity and open discussion about mental health issues and lack of mental health provision will start to slowly improve treatment options for those affected.

grannymouse303 Thu 11-May-17 12:05:48

Mental health services are under such a huge strain, it's awful that so many people aren't getting the help they need. It simply can't go on like this.

paddyann Thu 11-May-17 13:18:50

my neighbours daughter jumped from a bridge leaving behind three wee ones.She had PND in both her previous pregnancies yet she didn't get the help she needed with her last baby who was just weeks old when she died .Its not taken seriously enough by most people who think its just "baby blues" and will pass .I have known at least five young people who have committed suicide over the past 30 years ,thats quite a lot in a small town ,and thats just the ones I knew .When my son was suicidal after his relationship break up we had a GP who was a great help but sadly they seem to be few and far between .He visited my son at home, sometimes two or three times a day, and sat and talked and more importantly LISTENED to him .At first he wouldn't communicate at all but gradually the GP got him to talk and what a relief when he opened up and finally started to heal.We used to hear people say "pull yourself together" and I wish it was that easy but unless there is qualified help on hand the suicide rates will continue to rise .Its sad that its not a brach of healthcare that attracts a lot of interest from new recruits to medicine ,but I'm sure the rewards oof saving a life must be as great if not greater .

gillybob Thu 11-May-17 14:00:05

I don't know if this is country wide but up here (NE) we have a scheme called Talking Therapy. I know 2 people who have used this and both found it excellent. Basically you have a short telephone appointment and then you are allocated someone from Talking Therapy and you go to them every week/month whatever. They have the ability to refer on if necessary.

I know I was shot down on another thread but still feel that there are people who would make excellent MH councillors/nurses but may not be traditionally qualified (bandages and injections) kind of nurses. There would still be training involved (obviously) but this could be a stepping stone to getting the right help before its too late.