We have had separate bedrooms for about the last five years since I broke my foot. DH is a gold medal Olympic snorer, so I was quite relieved to have the excuse, although lately I have woken myself up snoring. I think it’s yet another delight of the aging process. However, he does come into my bed in the morning for a cuddle which I love. That keeps the closeness alive and I would really miss that. I LOVE the bed and room to myself, and although initially he wasn’t keen, now prefers it too. I’m a bit of an insomniac so it means if I wake up I can put the light on and read if the mood takes me.
The only downside of this arrangement is holidays! Obviously two hotel rooms is pretty much financially out of the question, and because I convince myself that I won’t sleep I don’t, and that totally ruins the whole thing. We’ve taken to renting self catering with two bedrooms, which works ok, but it’s not really the same. Can’t think of any way around that!
But anyway, lots of our friends now sleep apart, and are more than happy with the arrangement. I’m done sharing with anyone!