Fennel, Grandma70s and others I hope you make a full recovery. I try to remind myself to think before I move.
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Fennel, Grandma70s and others I hope you make a full recovery. I try to remind myself to think before I move.
Caledonail4- hear hear, it takes a lot of courage to recover from falling over. I wasn’t even that old when I tripped over a raised tree rout in a dark street. I didn’t break my fall with my hands- in fact the newspaper and bunch of flowers I was holding in each hand were unscathed. My face took the whole force, resulting in a broken nose, concussion and, worst of all, broken front teeth. For years I was frightened to walk outside, and had some other falling over episodes. I had lots of medical investigations which revealed nothing sinister, except that my posture was poor and I was walking stiffly with my head down, which meant falls were more likely, and I have vertigo. I have much more confidence now, have stopped driving everywhere and enjoy walking, although I am still careful at night. I credit Tai Chi- it has greatly improved my balance, and with it my confidence. My children have commented on my it. I’m sorry Fennel and grandma70 that you have had such horrible experiences, and hope you can find something that will help you recover your confidence. I will look at the website you suggest, Caledonail4 , it sounds excellent. Sorry for such a long post!
sorry - Caledonail!
even my fingers won't obey.
Csaledonail - very interesting, thank you.
I do know that I am more 'wobbly' since I had a broken ankle (a preventable fall had I been concentrating
).
Goldengirl the loss of confidence was a major hindrance for me too. Even though swimming was one of the best exercises in the later stages, I was terrified of the walk from changing rooms to pool until I discovered the steadying power of flip flops (which are not really recommended for ex-fallers). I know I came across as what we would call in Scotland a Big Feartie and I think - at every stage - we have to remind ourselves how much courage and grit we are showing in the aftershock of a fall.
Hi Fennel,
I'm sorry you lost contact. You can still look at the course aims and structure (weeks running and hours of study predicted) without signing up and I know my Canadian friend has done a few more on the health side. I'm trying to get Scottish History in perspective just now, but just one online course at a time.
The Aging Well:Falls course started off by asking if falls were a natural part of getting older? Then we were taken through all the different reasons why people fall and some of the causes were so simple, preventable and fixable. Most were nothing to do with age...except where age made it difficult to access treatment. Others required only an open-minded health professional (and there were quite a few who joined the course and said at the end they were going to try to improve or change things in their area).
I'm going to write to FutureLearn to ask if they have any idea when the course will run again. They are very approachable and helpful, but I fell off a few courses at first because I had misunderstood or lost something. If I wasn't needing the history facts so much just now, the one I'd sign up for is Creating Moments of Joy for People With Altzheimers. Most of the courses are free unless you want to keep the course material longer than two weeks. I just took notes as I went along. Old habits die hard.
I hope I'm not breaking any Gransnet rules here, but I'm sure they'll tell me if I am. If not, I will post if and when I find the Falls course will run again. All the best to you Fennel.
I had a fall a few years back which had a knock on effect that included my balance. It's only now that with special exercises my balance is improving and as a result I'm walking better as I'm also doing special exercises to strengthen my leg muscles. I found that having a fall really knocked my confidence and that's one of the reasons why it's taken so long to get better. I still avoid going down stairs in 'strange' places without help though
I started off 'falling over' when I was a child and always had grazed knees.
I continued to 'fall over', 'fall down' and now I suppose, at my advanced age, I 'have falls'.
I have two left feet, don't always concentrate properly because I am thinking of the next thing I need to do, and don't notice obstacles.
I fell over once in town when I was advising an old lady to be careful on the wet leaves. Next thing I knew I skidded on said leaves and she was leaning over me asking if I was all right 
There is no hope, I really must try harder.
Calednail - I tried to register for that course from Newcastle, but something went wrong and I lost contact with them I might try again.
The website that I linked to also has quite a bit about the various possible reasons for falling or tripping. And emphasises that each individual is different and needs a personlaised assessment.
I've also had a few falls over the last 10 years - far more than I did in my earlier ones although I do remember slipping in Binns once in my boots as it had been raining and going full length down the aisle - think the water slide in theme parks
Luckily my dad was further down the store to retrieve me and save me from huge embarrassment!
I ve had three ‘falls’ in the last few years all for a valid reason first on ice , second on wet leaves and third put my foot in a pot hole each time I was up almost before I went down looking to make sure no one was looking my best friend is a great faller she reckons her ‘biggish’ boobs make her topple over
A couple of years back I had a farm accident which caused me to fall from a height onto my shoulder which I broke in two places. Recovery was complicated and sporadic, depending upon various pieces of advice, but most health professionals treated me like someone now at much greater risk of a second fall (and it's true that the fear of ever doing that again made me much less relaxed about icy puddles or darkened stairways). A key factor in my recovery and subsequent return of confidence was when I discovered a free online course on Falls provided through the University of Newcastle under the umbrella of an organisation called FutureLearn.
www.futurelearn.com
The course involved a couple of hours a week and a friend from Canada signed up too so we were able to support each other, though we didn't really need it as there was plenty of support from other participants and the facilitators.
At the time, I was quite dismissive of some of the information on balance, hearing, eyesight, hazards and even medicine side effects - because mine was a fluke fall and nothing to do with my state of health etc - but I have since found ALL that advice useful, if not for me then for some of the elderly relatives about whom I care deeply.
I have also learned that you can't have too much help and advice to stay healthy at this age as never again would I want to lose the use of a limb, however temporary. My whole life went on hold for nearly a year and I really learned how many great friends I have ... most of all my DH who became a reluctant, but wonderful, lady's maid.
I know that the course has been run again at least once since I did it and I can't see it on the current list but it might be worth looking at Futurelearn as they send emails regularly letting us know which courses are running.
If anyone is struggling in the aftermath of a bad arm break, the good news is that I have made a complete recovery, though I had to come up with some of my own solutions, including intense massage and swimming. Please pm me if you are down about lengthy recovery as I don't think there is enough aftercare support from the stretched medical services and I know it can be a long haul. Sometimes, you just need to know there is light at the end of the tunnel.
I ‘had a fall’ a month ago, and after three weeks in hospital am now in a rehab unit full of other people who had ‘had falls’. It was a shock to me, as I was careful how I moved and was totally convinced I would never fall. But I just collapsed. I didn't trip over anything, there was no reason other than weakness. I didn’t break any bones, but am incapacitated in several ways.
I can do more than I could but still can’t walk independently, shower or wash my hair. I’m not enjoying this.
I find it an interesting use of language that up to a certain age – not quite sure when but maybe in the fifties – people fall over. They trip over toys left on the floor, slip on wet vinyl, fall over the cat, skid on dog mess in the street, slide down a wet hill, etc. Then, as they get older, they "have a fall". Does anyone check whether there was a direct cause for their falling over – a rumpled rug, shoes left just inside the door, a loose sole on a slipper and so on? It's as if once we get to a certain age we can expect to keep toppling over like ninepins.
ps I should have searched first - there are a couple of other threads on this.
I had a fall a couple of weeks ago while out walking. Nearly flat on my face, though my hands supported me a bit. Banged my nose which led to 2 black eyes.
Speaking to other older people I found that most have had falls.
I've been reading up about it and found this helpful website:
betterhealthwhileaging.net/why-aging-adults-fall/
I wonder if others have had falls, and can offer any advice?
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