Of course it is bad that appointments get missed but not all of them are the fault of the patient. At my GP surgery we have to make appointments as much as 25 days ahead and we don’t automatically get a reminder text. There are also many people like myself with short term memory difficulties. I can have something I need to do on my mind all morning then have it vanish from my brain half an hour beforehand if some happening distracts me. My daughter has my appointments on her phone calendar so she can remind me but not everyone is as fortunate as I am.
When I fell and was carted off to hospital for major surgery my daughter phoned a hospital where I had an upcoming appointment to tell them I couldn’t come and why. I was sent another appointment for 9 months later which I felt was punitive. Years later my Consultant, who has known me for 15 years and knows me very well, asked why I had a ‘Missed appointment’ flagged up in my notes. She said another time phone the clinic and not outpatients appointments.
My daughter took her infant son to a hospital hearing test and then saw the consultant to discuss the results. A day or two later she received a referral to a different clinic for a hearing test. She phoned her GP who knew nothing about it and then the first hospital, leaving a message which was not replied to. So she rang the consultant’s secretary who said that it was a mistake and the second referral would be cancelled. My daughter also phoned the second hospital clinic to explain and tell them the appointment was cancelled.
Fast forward two months and she has received a letter from her GP asking her to make an appointment to discuss a letter received by the surgery from the second hospital informing them that she had missed a hospital appointment for her son. A black mark on her record which she is not happy about. Giving out hefty fines would be a field day for solicitors.
I could not count how often I have left messages on NHS answer machines and never had anyone call back.
Bereavement wipes out everything


