I think body shape is hereditary and although it's not ok to say it I have inherited my father and grandmother's family chunky bones but alas not their height.. I e always had problem with fitted coats, I need a broad cut otherwise they don't fit my back. Wide shoes have always been a necessity.Many bracelets do not fit me, bangles in general I can't get over my big hands, I have to have a longer than average chain otherwise I get strangled/break it, and even rings are a problem. Earrings I'm pleased to report always do fit lol. I'm carrying too much weight ATM which I hope to shed, but exercise can be difficult because of the hip problem. But I have those fitting problems even when I'm not carrying too much weight. My son has inherited the bones and shape. Fortunately my daughter has inherited my mum's basic build which is much daintier, although she has developed muscles with sport and work.
So even when I'm it overweight I never really look slim
With a child I think the key is exercising, and not mentioning dieting as others have said. They are s growing so need sufficient nutritious food. Look at rolly poly babies when they start crawling and running around. There are growth charts in the royal college of paediatrics and child health website so you can see how things look against properly researched charts. But a problem will be getting her weight without making an issue if it, not sure how to do that but someone will have an idea. Interestingly using the usual way to estimate how tall a child will be based in parental height is wrong with my children, I'm average height for a woman, their father was short. They are both quite a bit taller than me, daughter is about her father's height, sin us not quite 6 foot but much taller than his father