I too can easily get overweight and have thought a lot about what leads to my eating more than I need. I am now a healthy weight, but it took time to understand enough to get here - I've been a healthy weight now for over 9 years and expect to stay that way. I think it is important to think about the feelings and thoughts and habits which lead to overeating. If it were simple, none of us would be over weight, but food is so basic to our lives, and has so many meanings for us - and nowadays the world around us is full of advertisements, food, drinks, images, all of which promote the kind of eating which leads to being over weight. And if you are overweight or obese, you probably fear others are judging you as greedy, so you feel bad, so you turn to your habitual source of comfort - food. Then the whole cycle begins again - people need support and understanding to get out of this cycle and change. Yes, it is down to ourselves to change, but it is also possible and helpful for people to get appropriate support.