Blue sky I am very grateful to you for having started this thread.
Reason being, I had issues in this area and honestly had no one to talk to about it and thought I was the only one.
I'm mid fifties now a lot of stressful life events for the past ten years. Since then phobia about going to G.P to be fair, never had one I trusted till last year anyway. Had check last year with nurse on BP - was a nighmare as she basically 'told me off' for high blood pressure (as if it were my 'fault') - so I ended up complaining about it.
After that as when I got the new G.P. I had complained because I was not given any information about what 'normal' blood pressure is - I have a history in the family of heart conditions etc.
New G.P mentioned 'white coat syndrome' I had never heard of it before. Take the point that someone made (sorry not to remember your name) further back in the thread - about it being possible to have a condition and being misdiagnosed with white coat syndrome.
Ended up borrowing a machine from surgery and being told to take readings as they had been sky high in surgery.
On the whole now, trying to manage my own health better...I'm painfully aware that the thing that helped me most was yoga. But managed to get a trapped nerve in back (not from yoga) but took the bins out one day and just twisted it. After that I was never the same doing yoga and too frightened to go to a class.
So I have other conditions, too but got to the point where I'm aiming to start again on my own, don't get much time to myself with a teenager but at least my yoga mat is in my front room in a quiet space. I really do think this is what would help most.
Instead of going in to the surgery now my G.P looks after me on the phone mostly. I also know that it would be most help for me if I could lose a bit of weight and eat better. But like most things, it is really difficult to motivate yourself isn't it?
I have found an understanding of the word 'iatrogenic' meaning when a treatment of a condition is actually more harmful potentially than the condition itself. I found this whilst I was pregnant and got a lot of flack for rejecting every test on offer - but in the end I was right and daughter came into world very healthy and despite long labour I was also fine.
So maybe it might be more useful for me and people out there to start a home exercise thread or something.
G.P offered me blood pressure meds and said 'do you want to take them?' Id said 'no thanks' and she understood that I would want to do lifestyle changes instead. So that is where I am at the moment.
Stressful events I have tried to minimise but some I'm afraid I just have to manage right now.
All best to others
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