Hearing aids

I know a lot of people who wear hearing aids and I'd rather they did than that I had to shout at them.

It looks a lot sillier to be unable to hear than to wear hearing aids.

My aids are fairly new and I am slowly getting used to them , one thing I struggle with is making out what some one is saying directly to me , but not looking at me , when in a crowd , so I sometimes just turn it off when in a crowd

I gave my DH some hankies for Christmas, in a small box. Before he unwrapped it he said “Is it something I want or something I need?” “Something you need” I said.
In all seriousness he said “Is it a hearing aid?”
Had to laugh, a vision of Boots asking if I wanted this off-the-shelf hearing aid gift wrapped!
And yes, he does need one, new year’s resolution to get his hearing checked.

Even when he does wear his hearing aids, OH can't follow a group conversation if several people are talking at once or if there is a lot of noise in the room. People still need to speak very loudly for him to have any chance of following what is being said.
He often leaves such gatherings feeling very down.

There are settings available that switch off the omnidirectional microphones, and leave only the forward-facing ones active for just such situations. If you have a digital aid(s) this is almost certainly an option that can be activated by the audiologist. Just how much improvement is offered I can't say personally as I have not opted for it on mine, but my (NHS) audiologist described the options to me. Ask and you may be surprised.

I have stuck with my aid and it helps no end.
I refuse to shout at folk who just won’t get/use a hearing aid!

DH's aids do have different settings for different surroundings, but he says that he doesn't hear any better on those settings!