Hi everyone,
We are on our way home at the moment - can't wait to get home, sit on my own private toilet and finally have a bowel movement! 
My chronic constipation issues (which affect me even on the home toilet) are due to a small rectocele which has taken all of the 'oommph' out of my pushing ability. Sorry for tmi but I can 'start' it reaches the exit, then stops and then retreats (if you know what I mean!)
Sorry for tmi 
The joys of having aging bowels. When I was in my 30's a poo would take two minutes!