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Are you wearing the right bra?

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GrannyGravy13 Fri 29-Jan-21 11:24:42

Please excuse typos

Gwenisgreat1 Fri 29-Jan-21 11:23:54

I used to use Figleaves for bras, will probably go back to them when this is over

Love your description Shinamae

GrannyGravy13 Fri 29-Jan-21 11:23:20

I went to Rigby & Peller for a bra fitting, not a tape measure in sight. Lovely kind and experienced fitters. Expensive but worth every pound!!

Last year I managed to get o get a fitting at a Bravissimo store just after Christmas, equally helpful and cane out the same size as Rigby & Peller.

Cannot understand going braless (I am tiny but with rather a large frontage )

Jane10 Fri 29-Jan-21 11:23:08

I discovered crop top bras back in the summer. So comfortable. All is safely gathered in. I don't know how they manage to cantilever everything into place using only elastic and no hard wires or thick straps but they do. I got mine in M&S.

ayse Fri 29-Jan-21 11:22:27

I think the problem is the designers make bras for younger people and forget that older folk have a more flaccid body. For me there are never enough hooks without a bra extender which I refuse to buy after spending a fortune on pretty underwear! I’ve given up.

I’ve contemplated buying a front fastening stretchy bra with broad back and straps from a catalogue. It might work.

Blossoming Fri 29-Jan-21 11:19:19

The bra fitting guides on Bravissimo’s website are really useful.

www.bravissimo.com/bra-fittings-your-way/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI1OzRtILB7gIVl5ftCh1crAayEAAYASAAEgKDB_D_BwE

Witzend Fri 29-Jan-21 11:18:42

@Shinamae ??

Shinamae Fri 29-Jan-21 11:13:33

I’ve got a sheepdog bra……….. Rounds them up and points them in the right direction direction....?

Nemesia Fri 29-Jan-21 11:13:01

But does anybody have helpful suggestions for the accommodation (for want of a better word) of *back fat*as either my bra is way too big or my rear view suggests I have another pair beneath my shoulder blades.
This was not a problem when I was younger ??

lemongrove Fri 29-Jan-21 11:11:55

I once had to take a bra off at a dinner party ( not in front of startled diners)?but went to the loo, removed it and stuffed it in my bag, fortunately I had a silk scarf in there which I used as a bit of a cover up.I enjoyed the rest of the evening.

lemongrove Fri 29-Jan-21 11:08:46

That’s a huge jump in size Quizzer??
I have been measured twice in the past and both fitters got it completely wrong, choosing such tight bras that I felt faint in them ( like a Victorian heroine).
I now just make sure that bras are tried on, so no online shopping for them, as each bra, even in the same size seems to vary.A bra shouldn’t ride up at the back, nor should it dig in tightly under the boobs, and all should be ‘safely gathered in’.

BlueSky Fri 29-Jan-21 11:06:51

Waste of time! I was measured and persuaded I was a 34F when in fact I’d be wearing 38E most of my adult life. It had to be given to charity as it was unbearably tight!

Quizzer Fri 29-Jan-21 10:55:04

What is it about mature ladies and their bras? I was shocked to read in a recent post that many ladies were not wearing their bras during lockdown because they were uncomfortable. It is estimated that over half of British women wear the wrong size bra.
A couple of years ago I took my older SIL shopping to choose an outfit for her GD’s wedding The assistant in the shop was so helpful and eventually an outfit was chosen, but the assistant then tactfully suggested that my SIL should be measured for a bra to go with it. The bra she was wearing slung her boobs at waist level! She is not a well endowed lady so the weight should not be a problem.
My SIL declared that she had been this bra size for years, even though she had dropped two stone in weight. How many women don’t realise that their size changes throughout life, especially after the menopause. I gently persuaded my SIL to go to the lingerie department of a nearby M&S where they usually have a bra fitter. My SIL had been wearing a size 42B bra, but the fitter measured her as a 36D and brought in a few to try on. SIL was amazed how well they fitted and how comfortable they were!!
Once we get out of lockdown I would encourage anyone who is uncomfortable in their bra to get properly measured and buy one that IS comfortable.