Well said, Gabrielle56 I'm not sure how your post about the dentist would work, but your first post reflects my opinion exactly.
For the past decade or so, we have all been turned against one another, and in no case more blatently than the intergenerational conflict that is used to steal from the old and to justify fleecing the young.
I'm not asking for young people to subsidise me. I'm asking for the system that I paid into to pay me back, in the same way that my contributions paid the pensions of those before me. Yes, many of us live longer now, but many more women pay in than used to, so the number of contributions is higher. The 15% mortgage rate I paid subsidised the savings rates of those who had money in savings when I couldn't afford to save. Since my own turn to save arrived (even though it's been at very low rates all along), there have been constant calls to claw it back, as over people are supposedly 'comfortable' - perish the thought.
Yes, I have an occupational pension, but it didn't come free, and I was only able to pay into it from the age of 37 as when I was young people on part-time or temporary contracts didn't have a right to belong to occupational pensions, and these contracts were the norm for new starters in my profession.
As for the house price resentment - massive gains from house ownership do not apply across the country, and in any case not all older people are homeowners.
I am speaking only about myself, obviously, and am not necessarily representative of all older people. But that is part of the point - not all older people are the same, and to make sweeping policies that include all of us - rich poor, those who have worked and those who haven't, home owners and renters, savers and spenders, the sick and the ill, those with pensions and those without is such a blunt instrument.
What I think is vital to a cohesive society, however, is that people should be able to make choices in life based on the expectation that what governments say is true, and that their promises will be honoured. To move goalposts when it is too late for people to go back and do things differently is to deny them the right to plan ahead, and IMO it destabilises society.