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What do these symptoms add up to?

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JackyB Tue 24-May-22 09:15:34

I know I shouldn't be doing this on the internet, but we really can't work out what my DH has/had despite having been looked at by various specialists. He is 72.

A few weeks ago, I went off on a Monday morning for a pedicure. Whilst I was away, I did the weekly shop so I was gone for some 2-3 hours in all. DH had been fine when I left, reading the paper, having breakfast.

When I came home he was in a pitiful state. He said that just after I left he came over funny, started shaking and developed a temperature. He was in bed and in terrible pain in his hip. He had thrown up a few times. This completely floored him for the rest of the day and the vomiting continued all day and into the night. The temperature and the shakes abated over the next couple of days, but the following morning he had blood in his urine.

Since then he has slowly been building back up to normal but still doesn't feel he has the strength or energy to join his friends on their Wednesday afternoon bike rides (usually 30-40 km), and has not gone on a long planned trip with them (60-70 km per day). Believe me, he would go if he could.

He has seen urologists and other specialists, had blood and urine checked several times and a CT scan. They can't put their finger on anything. Several things have been eliminated and the scan didn't show up any tumours or anything.

Is there any connection between the various symptoms - hip pain, vomiting, blood in urine, spasms, temperature? They all seem to be quite separate things. And until they can find the cause, we live in fear that it could happen again unannounced.

MawtheMerrier Tue 24-May-22 09:22:16

It certainly needs further investigation.
The spasms may be the same as the rigors Paw (DH) used to get whenever he ran a temperature- very frightening and usually resulting in hospitalisation for a (sometimes unspecified) infection.
It does sound vaguely kidney-related , have they definitely ruled out a UTI?
Or an infection in the hip joint? I’m also thinking Rheumatoid Arthritis?
The bike rides sound like they should be avoided for a while- gentle exercise only and not too far from home either.

Barmeyoldbat Tue 24-May-22 09:59:33

Yes I agree with Mawthemerrier, I wouldn’t leave it and would want to know exactly what’s going on.

Callistemon21 Tue 24-May-22 10:16:16

Yes, I agree that he needs a second opinion.

Is the pain in the hip or in ypthe kidney area?
Could he have had a small kidney stone or gravel passing through?

That can make you feel very ill indeed with symptoms which you describe, including blood in the urine, rigors etc.

But do ask for further investigations and best not to do any vigorous exercise in the meantime.

Callistemon21 Tue 24-May-22 10:16:30

Excuse typo

Callistemon21 Tue 24-May-22 10:18:11

www.nhs.uk/conditions/kidney-stones/symptoms/

JackyB Tue 24-May-22 10:23:30

As I was typing it, I realised that a kidney stone would be the most obvious thing linking all the symptoms but this would have been the first thing a urologist would look for. Of course, if he has passed the stone, they won't find anything now which would explain a lot. The pain in his hip however was more down the outside of his thigh than connected to internal organs. Thank you everyone for your feedback so far.

FannyCornforth Tue 24-May-22 10:40:31

Oh Jacky, you must be so worried.
But it seems that you are getting somewhere.
My DH has suffered very similar quite recently (as Maw knows)
It was partly a UTI, but I also think that he was overmedicating which made him dehydrated
thanks for you and MrB

Sago Tue 24-May-22 10:46:48

I has a kidney stone (staghorn, 3cm) that caused these symptoms, it had caused an ecological infection that spread to my kidneys, bowel, liver and appendix.
It took some time for them to pinpoint this, I was taken to hospital via ambulance and eventually treated successfully.
The kidney stone could not be removed until the infection was clear.
We got there in the end!

Sago Tue 24-May-22 10:47:07

Ecoli not ecological