LovelyLady
No has one been in our home since the first outbreak. We take no chances.
Neither of us have had the virus.
We go out but test if we need to. For fresh air, that’s what windows are for. We’re fortunate and have a garden and use it. It’s been a very long couple of years being isolated but we’re not ill (thus far)
Just because we’re told we can go out, doesn’t mean we have to. This ‘go out’ guidance has been given by a government that’s lost its leader. Trust yourself.
I haven't had Covid either. I complied with lockdown restrictions to the letter, but apart from that, I've been out and occasionally had people in my house. I certainly haven't been living in fear and I can't say that my life has been restricted that much.
Nevertheless, I've worn decent FFP2 masks in enclosed spaces, conscientiously kept my distance in shops, etc and have tested whenever before people have been in my house and when I've been to anybody else. My vaccines are up-to-date, so I'm optimistic that I wouldn't be too badly affected, if I were to be infected.
I really don't understand this "fear" thing. The virus isn't some insidious monster which will creep under the door when you're asleep. It's airborne and the more people are infected in a local area and the closer and longer a person spends in others' company in an enclosed space, the higher the risk of being infected. It's a risk, so not inevitable and somebody who is more vulnerable is no more likely to be infected than anybody else, although the higher risk of serious illness might mean they want to be more careful. It really is as simple as that. A person could have an extremely high viral load, but go outside and stand in the middle of an empty field and wouldn't infect anybody.
I agree with volver. People aren't being irresponsible if they don't know they're infected. I have no idea how many people are asymptomatic. Going out for a walk, despite testing positive, is a very different situation from going into a crowded supermarket, unmasked, and not keeping one's distance from other shoppers.