I use topical oestrogen in the form of vagifem pessaries every other night and ovestin cream twice a day. These are prescribed by my GP and I also buy Yes! WB (Water Based) and OB (Oil Based) vaginal moisturizers on line to use twice a day (though I have heard that some GPS will also prescribe these.) I do this for vaginal atrophy and pelvic pain. I am 68 and have been using these for a couple of years.
I had UTI like problems/interstitial cystitis (testing rarely showed any infection) for many years but have had no urinary problems since using topical oestrogen. So I now think that I had undiagnosed GSM (Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause.)
Many GPS are still undereducated about vaginal atrophy and GSM and do not prescribe sufficiently or quite often try to reduce the prescription once it is working and the symptoms have reduced. But when a woman needs these products, she needs them for life or the symptoms come back with a vengeance. This has happened to me this last year. In my ignorance, I thought that I would reduce my vagifem to once a week. I had terrible, disabling pain and soreness for 7 months until I got on top of the symptoms again. I now always give priority to applying my oestrogen and moisturizing products. Especially as it usually takes up to 3 months of using oestrogen prescriptions before the symptoms improve and settle.
I am now a member of an excellent Vaginal Atrophy Facebook group which gives lots of information, advice and support. It has been such a relief to find a group of people who understand how this painful condition can negatively affect quality of life. I found this group through Jane Lewis's brilliant book, My Menopausal Vagina and I have found her advice on how to cope with VA absolutely, positively life enhancing for me.
I had never heard of vaginal atrophy until I got it and though it's pretty common, I know from the Facebook group that many other women are unaware of it too.