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Private care for 'cosmetic' issues

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Franbern Sun 24-Mar-24 09:18:28

A life long socialist, I am appalled at the number of older people who using their savings for medical care these days. The NHS has been slowly but persistently privatised over the past 14 years.

Never thought I would ever be one of those people, however over the past year I have developed a whole lot of nasty looking wart like growths on my face, mainly on my cheek. As I have previously had three Bcc's removed from my face, so did go to my GP . These were checked at local hospital Dermatology clinic and came back as 'benign - nothing to worry about'!!!

which is all very well, but they were extremely ugly and I was very aware of them. Conscious the whole time when with other people, could even see them from the corner of my eye. Would sit talking to other people with my hand covering that half of my face. Had to go back to dermatology to have something cut off the tip of my nose, and the lovely young technician, looked at these and told me she would love to be permitted to cut them all out - but was not allowed!!!

I started to cancel going out and meeting people, hated catching a glimpse of my face in a mirror. My two eldest daughters suggested I consider having them removed privately as there really was no other way.

They found a superb local clinic and an appointment was made. The whole lot were removed in the one sitting, plus a couple of skin tags. I was in the chair for about 40 minutes. Took about 7-10 days for them all finally clear up, and I am so very much happier. Can look at myself in the mirror, taking a pride in my appearance.
Cost me £350 = and well worth it. BUT surely, cosmetic appearance like this should be under the Health Service, I am fortunate that I could afford that amount on a 'one off'.

MissAdventure Sun 24-Mar-24 12:30:35

I have lots of moles, and had a large one in my eyebrow. (Even though I haven't really got eyebrows!)
It grew, and crusted, and started to pull down my skin, and I thought eventually I wouldnt be able to open my eye properly.

My gp said it was cosmetic, and wouldnt refer me, so I paid to see a dermatologist.

She decided that it wasn't just cosmetic, and said that while they could remove it privately, she would write to my gp and ask him to refer me directly for removal, bypassing the nhs dermatolgist.

I got called into the gp after it was done, and was told off!

Magsymoo Mon 25-Mar-24 18:40:56

I have had about 5 surgeries on my skin for different ‘dodgy’ marks, one of which turned out to be a malignant melanoma. Fortunately it was dealt with speedily and hopefully I am in the clear. Now I am super vigilant, checking my skin regularly but of course I can’t check my back.I have asked at my GP surgery if I can have an annual, preventative check up on my back. The answer is no, so I have to pay privately £250 to have this checked every year. If I get another melanoma the cost of treatment to the NHS would far outweigh the cost of a precautionary check up. The NHS is a disease service, not a health service.

DollyRocker Mon 25-Mar-24 19:05:42

Greyduster

I have a skin tag where it catches on my underwear and bleeds. I had it looked at by the surgery and they agreed it needed to be removed, but the wait is eight months to a year. The advice was to “put a plaster over it”. I can see that I will have to go down the private road sooner rather than later☹️!

Me and my partner took ours off ourselves! We got a skin tag and wart kit, you squirt a measured dose of what I believe is liquid nitrogen onto a swab & press it on. After around 4 rounds they blackened and dropped off. It was a proper brand name & cost around £20. Job done! Private London clinic wanted £500 each. Partners was getting massive & of course no dice with NHS.

DollyRocker Mon 25-Mar-24 19:09:37

www.cryotag.co.uk/
This is what we used.

maddyone Mon 25-Mar-24 19:53:38

I had a small skin tag. I tied cotton thread around it really tightly. After a few days it fell off. Job done.

maddyone Mon 25-Mar-24 19:54:37

I did the same with a horrible mole on my neck. That took about a week to fall off.

CanadianGran Mon 25-Mar-24 20:00:26

Franbern, I am glad you had your warts/moles removed and am sorry that you had to pay for it yourself. Your NHS is sounding very much like our health services here in Canada. Because they are funded provincially, each province may have different rules and funding from another.

It does sound to me like things need to be at a critical stage before anything is done. My DH has Dupuytren's contracture in his hands, and has had operations on both(at different times), but there is a non-invasive needle procedure that can loosen the contracture without surgery, when the disease is still at a less serious stage, but for some reason is only done at private clinics. So you have to just let it get worse, and then have surgery. It makes no sense to me.

Our wait times for certain procedures vary from area to area. DH has been waiting for a hip labrum repair for around 18 months which is causing issues to his cardio health since he has pain walking. We haven't even looked into private repair for that since we know it would be exorbitant.

growstuff Mon 25-Mar-24 22:03:11

Oldnproud

Calendargirl

Yes, I think that it is reasonable to pay for cosmetic issues.

What classes as cosmetic, though?

Does that / should that include breast reconstruction after breast removal due to cancer?

Or what about an 18 year old girl who only has one properly-developed breast, and who through acute embarrassment at her 'deformity', has restricted her life since puberty (avoiding boys, not going swimming, wearing baggy tops) to hide it, even from her mother ?

I do know that the second of those is classed as cosmetic (certainly in one NHS trust, at least). Treatment on the NHS was refused when the girl, her self confidence rock bottom, finally plucked up the courage to open up to her family and seek treatment. The two operations involved cost many thousands of pounds privately. The money for the first was found by selling their house, but they will have to go into debt to fund the second.

Maybe different trusts have different rules. I'm on the waiting list to have one of my breasts reduced after cancer surgery on the other one. Before I made the request, I looked up the criteria for breast reduction ops and certainly in my trust significant asymmetry of breasts is valid.

Kate1949 Mon 25-Mar-24 22:18:21

Good luck growstuff

Callistemon21 Mon 25-Mar-24 22:42:14

I'm glad you made the decision, Franbern and hope it improves your self-esteem. Money well spent.

Yes, where is the line drawn? I suppose the criterion is it depends on the cosmetic procedure involved and whether or not it is badly affecting someone's mental health

When even children can't access NHS dental services now for essential treatment something is wrong.

maddyone Mon 25-Mar-24 22:55:15

I hope you get your treatment growstuff, all cancer patients should receive whatever treatment they need to restore them, as far as is possible, to their former selves.

My mother had a ‘thing’ removed from her face on the NHS. It was frozen off. My father also had some rodent moles taken off his face.

Me? I’m just lazy, I simply thought it would be quicker to do a do-it-yourself job. I wouldn’t recommend that method for a breast reduction though.

Notyetagran46 Tue 26-Mar-24 11:35:19

Unless a condition is life threatening or needed to improve mobility (and you are prepared to join the waiting list) most other conditions will eventually have to be paid for privately.
Maybe if the number of doctors and nurses had increased in line with the population and tax payers were prepared to pay more tax to fund the NHS, we could expect a health service from cradle to grave.
But with the number of elderly people living longer and younger people living with chronic illnesses draining the NHS, the service that we grew up will no longer exist.

icanhandthemback Tue 26-Mar-24 11:48:21

I can't agree that this sort of treatment should be on the NHS (I have ugly blemishes too) when things like preventative chiropody for diabetics and ear wax removal for the elderly has been removed. My Mum has to pay for these procedures regularly on the top of her care fees. They seem like little things but not caring for feet properly could mean the loss of it and not being able to hear affects the level of her dementia behaviour quite significantly.
I'd love my skin tags and lumps to be removed but I honestly don't think the NHS can afford that sort of treatment unless they are malignant.

cc Tue 26-Mar-24 11:52:19

Greyduster

I have a skin tag where it catches on my underwear and bleeds. I had it looked at by the surgery and they agreed it needed to be removed, but the wait is eight months to a year. The advice was to “put a plaster over it”. I can see that I will have to go down the private road sooner rather than later☹️!

I had a mole which was removed from my thigh for just this reason and I was really pleased. But it was 20 years ago and was done in a couple of weeks, rather than your long wait. I'm not sure what the cost would be, but I'm sure it wouldn't be enormous.

RakshaMK Tue 26-Mar-24 11:53:53

My partner has a basketball sized lipoma hanging from the bottom of his belly.. it's causing repeated antibiotic resistant urinary infections, making him walk like a crab and affecting his left him which already has no socket.
NHS have been aware of it for 5 years but still not seen a surgeon for its removal, current waiting list for initial assessment is 13 months. It's growing daily and starting to tear at the skin because of the weight of it 😞

yvonnebrown29 Tue 26-Mar-24 11:57:46

Just to say I had about 6/8 skin tags and had them removed by a beautician(one i have been to before) and it was only about £30 and done quickly and painlessly. So no need to see doctors etc and they never came back!

growstuff Tue 26-Mar-24 12:42:41

cc

Greyduster

I have a skin tag where it catches on my underwear and bleeds. I had it looked at by the surgery and they agreed it needed to be removed, but the wait is eight months to a year. The advice was to “put a plaster over it”. I can see that I will have to go down the private road sooner rather than later☹️!

I had a mole which was removed from my thigh for just this reason and I was really pleased. But it was 20 years ago and was done in a couple of weeks, rather than your long wait. I'm not sure what the cost would be, but I'm sure it wouldn't be enormous.

About 30 years ago, I had a raised mole removed from my face too. The GP burnt it off in his routine minor ops clinic. It took a few minutes, so i doubt it cost much. However, it did mean I felt lot more confident and didn't catch on scarves and collars.

Barbadosbelle Tue 26-Mar-24 13:03:50

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Just always remember that every time someone has any medical procedure done privately, everyone on the NHS for that procedure goes up one on the NHS waiting list.

Ditto Private Education. Think of the pressure it takes off of the State system and what more of a mess it would be in if the 600 000+ children who are

Barbadosbelle Tue 26-Mar-24 13:11:10

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....... are being educated privately suddenly joined the State sector.

I feel no guilt about using either over the decades. I just was a tad jealous of friends being able to afford expensive holidays when we couldn't!!

(Apologies for the disjointed comment. Writing in the car and the roads are so b***dy awful that the first part "sent itself'. No, I wasn't driving!!!)

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MissAdventure Tue 26-Mar-24 13:12:51

RakshaMK

My partner has a basketball sized lipoma hanging from the bottom of his belly.. it's causing repeated antibiotic resistant urinary infections, making him walk like a crab and affecting his left him which already has no socket.
NHS have been aware of it for 5 years but still not seen a surgeon for its removal, current waiting list for initial assessment is 13 months. It's growing daily and starting to tear at the skin because of the weight of it 😞

That's truly awful!
Surely at that size it will now start causing extra problems, which will then also need treatment after treatment?

Shantygirly Tue 26-Mar-24 14:26:30

I have a problem with a fingernail. About a year ago I caught my index finger in my misnamed 'soft close' kichen drawers. The nail went black and was detatched from the nailbed. A paramedic at my local surgery removed it (painfully) but now its grown back, just the same as it was before, lifted right off the nailbed and I keep catching it on things, its very uncomfortable it aches and is ugly. The GP surgery now say I have to 'go private' to get it treated. My problem is where? I know I will have to pay for it but I can't even find someone to do it!

Any ideas?

MadeInYorkshire Tue 26-Mar-24 14:33:46

Greyduster

I have a skin tag where it catches on my underwear and bleeds. I had it looked at by the surgery and they agreed it needed to be removed, but the wait is eight months to a year. The advice was to “put a plaster over it”. I can see that I will have to go down the private road sooner rather than later☹️!

Crikey, my GP just freezes them off at a routine appointment!

One thing I have done previously is taken one off myself by tying a bit of cotton very tightly around the stem of the tag - cuts off the blood supply and falls off in a matter of days! Obviously that will depend on where it is and whether or not you can get to it!

MissAdventure Tue 26-Mar-24 14:49:04

The advice to put a plaster over a skin tag is good.
It is a known way of shifting the buggers.

greenlady102 Tue 26-Mar-24 14:56:15

Shantygirly

I have a problem with a fingernail. About a year ago I caught my index finger in my misnamed 'soft close' kichen drawers. The nail went black and was detatched from the nailbed. A paramedic at my local surgery removed it (painfully) but now its grown back, just the same as it was before, lifted right off the nailbed and I keep catching it on things, its very uncomfortable it aches and is ugly. The GP surgery now say I have to 'go private' to get it treated. My problem is where? I know I will have to pay for it but I can't even find someone to do it!

Any ideas?

inquire at Bupa.

MadeInYorkshire Tue 26-Mar-24 15:10:38

Aveline

It seems quite reasonable to me that the NHS doesn't cover cosmetic procedures. Where could they draw the line?

There is 'cosmetic' and 'cosmetic' though - things like breast reductions can have a big impact on people's lives as their backs are affected and may be unable to work etc as a result.

I remember a real furore going on maybe around 20 years ago a young lass in Yorkshire had either a reduction on the NHS or an enhancement on the NHS as it was affecting her MH. Then a year later said it was worse and got it reversed! I think it should be how it is impacting on your life really, like it was with the OP, who at £350 looks like she got a bargain ...