I developed Osteoarthritis in my knees- very early it felt to me,at 54. ( B. Jane Fonda and her high impact aeerobics!) I was eventually put on a waiting list for full replacement knee joints.As time progressed I started to get depressed about the pain,waiting time,trying to work ,run a family home etc.I then thought 'what can I do rather than what I can't do?'I went to a physio course offered by our GP surgery,went back to pilates,took up tai chi.I followed the advice on what is now Versus Arthritis.I took paracetemol before playing badminton ( which I loved and still do) or going for a planned walk and then a couple of hours after.A South African consultant told me to manage the pain that way with paracetamol rather than take it all the time.A physio recommended Pernaton ( where DO all the little green lipped mussels come from to make it?!) That helped more than anything pain wise.I managed by sitting down at work where I could,and at home working for 30 mins and then resting for 10 mins. I continued playing badminton as I enjoyed it and felt it worth the pain. Eventually, pre lockdown I had both knees replaced ,at age 63,18 months apart. That's the only thing that really did get rid of the pain! I still have it in each finger and thumb,and my neck.I think it's creeping into my hips now I am over 70.I try and focus on exercise and try to ignore pain, but resting when I need to. I hurt my back quite badly 3 years ago, and a similar regime has helped, but I have also tried an osteopath,sports masseur,chinese medicine.All helped in some way,the chinese medicine most of all, that was via cupping and massage. However I didn't go to them for Arthritis pain,this was torn ligaments.
I do have every sympathy for the OP, I found the pain in my knees pre ops frustrating,upsetting,depressing and debilitating.It was the thinking I was doing something that helped me as much as anything, but didn't get rid of the pain of course.Do try Pernaton ( and I am going to try the udder cream as well, thanks for that tip too)