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PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help with the Power of Grans

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Grandmafrench Mon 24-Feb-25 18:07:58

A dear friend collapsed a few days ago and is seriously ill in hospital. His Wife, a Gransnetter, wants no flowers or get well wishes, but just asks that anyone who can will now pray, light a candle, or just wish and hope, to help support them in this way.

I can't imagine how she feels - this afternoon the situation has worsened and I'm so sad for them both.

Please all you lovely Grans, you've done it before, wish hard for him now. Let's see if we can turn this situation around, as we've done for others.

Thank you so much x

Lovetopaint037 Sat 29-Mar-25 08:02:37

Have just prayed for him.

NotAGran55 Sat 29-Mar-25 06:44:58

Fantastic news to start the day with. Thank you for sharing it with us, you are a wonderful friend to them both.

cornergran Fri 28-Mar-25 23:48:55

That is superb progress grandmafrench. X

V3ra Fri 28-Mar-25 23:32:28

What great progress he's made, the rehab unit sounds like an amazing place!Β‘

Grandmafrench Fri 28-Mar-25 23:24:03

UPDATE

Some 6 weeks on, after some terrible times following a bleed to the brain, my friend's Husband has been able to move to a wonderful Rehab Unit where specialised staff can't do enough to assist with the recovery of all patients in the Unit.

In hospital it was something of a rollercoaster ride - to put it mildly - but he tried so hard not to lose hope and has been greatly spurred on by the love and efforts of his Wife and family, the visits and wishes of good friends and certainly by the support so kindly shown by Gransnetters.

He passed his 'Swallowing' exams with flying colours, he could then do without a feeding tube, he can sit up unaided, is helped with specially targeted exercises, is able to sit out in a beautiful garden, can speak much more clearly and enjoy conversations with visitors. This week he has been able to move his arm; and today his leg, and life has become easier with proper food which has helped regain some of the weight lost.

Today, having been told that he can now eat and drink all food - no restrictions - he celebrated with Fish & Chips for supper !

You can imagine the relief which his Wife is beginning to feel, with at last some optimism for further improvement.

She wanted me to tell you all of her gratitude - to each and every person who responded with prayers, candles, well wishes, hope, and kind and positive remarks - thank you a million times.

I would like to add my own thanks for the usual GN Force To Be Reckoned With. Your warmth and kindness, together with someone knowing that you're all willing them to get better MUST (and does) make a difference. I am so pleased that I asked for your help - and am more grateful than you'll ever know for your wonderful response.
To all of you dear Grans, thank you so much. 😘

Grannylynj Sat 22-Mar-25 14:28:02

So, what’s the latest?

grammargran Tue 04-Mar-25 10:46:38

Grandmafrench, any news of your friend’s husband?

Tattiehead Wed 26-Feb-25 21:25:41

Love and light sent

GrannyGravy13 Wed 26-Feb-25 16:50:29

My thoughts and prayers πŸ™πŸ»

Chocolatelovinggran Wed 26-Feb-25 15:49:32

Crosstitchfan, wishing and praying for you and your little one.

Indigo8 Wed 26-Feb-25 15:11:15

Another little candle lit today

mulberry7 Wed 26-Feb-25 14:22:52

Joining in.

Bessieb Wed 26-Feb-25 13:11:08

Consider it done ❀️

NannaFirework Tue 25-Feb-25 23:20:40

I ve only just seen this but sending love and prayers xxx

Franski Tue 25-Feb-25 22:43:36

A prayer for your friend and her hubby. I hope things work out. She is lucky to have you batting for her x

Grannmarie Tue 25-Feb-25 21:01:37

So sorry, I got your name wrong, should be Crossstitchfan.

Grannmarie Tue 25-Feb-25 20:59:27

Praying now for GrandmaFrench's friend's husband, and for Crossstitchlover's wee one, for all who love them and worry about them, and for all the healthcare professionals who care for them.
Hoping and praying for the best possible outcomes. πŸ•―πŸ™πŸ•―πŸ™πŸ•―πŸ™πŸ•―πŸ™πŸ•―

Crossstitchfan Tue 25-Feb-25 20:52:01

Allira

Crossstitchfan
It is always so upsetting to hear of a young child who is so ill and my thoughts and prayers are be with you and your family.
Wishing you all the best.

Thank you Allira. Much appreciated.

Crossstitchfan Tue 25-Feb-25 20:51:07

Just to let you all know that I haven’t left, although I thought I should at one point. I am getting so much love and support from you all that it woukd be silly to go. So you are stuck with me and I am very grateful.

Allira Tue 25-Feb-25 20:49:15

Crossstitchfan
It is always so upsetting to hear of a young child who is so ill and my thoughts and prayers are be with you and your family.
Wishing you all the best.

Crossstitchfan Tue 25-Feb-25 20:47:13

Barleyfields

Consider my prayer list extended, Crosstitchfan. I am very sorry to hear of such a young child being so ill and I sincerely hope that the wonderful treatments available now are successful for them. I guess when one is in a very bad place and believes in the power of prayer, it is natural to ask friends here for help. My very best wishes to the little one.

Thank you Barleyfields for your wonderful message. You have no idea how much messages of support from you and others helps me and my family.

Crossstitchfan Tue 25-Feb-25 20:45:28

Thank you to all you lovely, supportive people. I have a wonderful family, but it is so comforting to know that people outside the family care too.

Kathmaggie Tue 25-Feb-25 20:43:29

Absolutely, will do πŸ™πŸ»

JPB123 Tue 25-Feb-25 20:23:49

Sending hope and prayers,with loving thoughts x

lucycat2 Tue 25-Feb-25 19:17:56

Same here