Uterine prolapse advice please

I had pessaries too, but eventually had to have a hysterectomy.

They certainly weren't painful. It was such a relief to no longer feel the bottom was no longer falling out of my world. 😉
I also had a bladder repair. Oh the joy of not being up and down to the loo all night!

I hope you can find some relief.

Could you phone the gynaecologist's secretary to check the waiting list time? Perhaps ask if a private consultation is possible, if so , how much.

I have had a pessary for 5 years (or rather several pessaries). It can be a bit of trial and error finding the right type/size for you, but they are not at all uncomfortable when in and I wouldn't say painful to insert or remove. It's a shame you have such a long waiting list to get seen. If you can afford a private appointment I would think it well worth it.

I think you should go back to your GP and make sure they know how this is affecting you. Write what you want to say in advance. You could take a trusted friend. GN gives great support and tips but I think you need to get medical advice too. I’m sorry, what you’re experiencing sounds unacceptable.