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on a scale of one to ten

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ExDancer Wed 18-Mar-26 11:06:09

Oh how I hate being asked that question, the one that goes "how much does it hurt on a scale of 1 to 10?" usually by a doctor.

I feel like saying '11' but I don't, I make a wild guess at 7 or 8 but I'm thinking - childbirth was perhaps a 10 but then trapping my fingers in a car door is a 10 when it happens, but it doesn't last for hours so how do I rate it?

What do you answer?

granjan Thu 19-Mar-26 18:53:14

Plevey08

Equally annoying is how do you rate our customer services on a scale 1-10. Or star's 1-5. I sometimes don't mind giving it but then they want a great long box filling exercise of why etc etc...and you've only bought a pair of b....y socks. Sorry gone off piste here!

Totally agree with this!
😡😡

Coppernob Thu 19-Mar-26 18:07:11

When I had cellulitis in my leg last year, I remember saying to my husband "Give me childbirth any day." I've never known pain like the cellulitis pain. It was certainly way above 10.

ExDancer Thu 19-Mar-26 18:05:19

That chart is helpful, thank you twiglet but I still think its an odd way of measuring pain. On the other hand - no I can't think of any other way either.

Lahlah65 Thu 19-Mar-26 17:59:17

Sorry - pressed send too soon.

Also, these aren’t designed to get an absolute measurement of pain, but rather to assess how the pain is impacting on someone’s quality of life. If somebody is more tolerant of pain and it’s something is not interfering with their everyday life, they may need less intervention than someone whose pain stops them doing their normal things.

Suzieque66 Thu 19-Mar-26 17:58:27

OMG .. Ive just been diagnosed with Gall stones and the pain is terrible ... I did some research on google and found that a Fat Free diet is very beneficial for this condition... no doctor said anything about food being in the equation .... When I switched to this diet I am pain free ... Hope this helps other people who are in pain ...

Lahlah65 Thu 19-Mar-26 17:56:54

Remember that the definition of pain includes severe discomfort. Skin disorders, shingles under the conditions can cause significant discomfort, but we wouldn’t necessarily describe it as pain (especially those of us who’ve been through childbirth!).

Plevey08 Thu 19-Mar-26 17:22:18

Equally annoying is how do you rate our customer services on a scale 1-10. Or star's 1-5. I sometimes don't mind giving it but then they want a great long box filling exercise of why etc etc...and you've only bought a pair of b....y socks. Sorry gone off piste here!

Retread Thu 19-Mar-26 16:53:33

I'm another kidney stone survivor. Pain off the scale. I never ever want another one!

(The kidney stone was broken up with lithotrypsy, I passed a sizeable fragment - a plastic sieve was involved - and delivered it to the Stone Clinic for analysis).

Infividual pain thresholds differ too, so it's quite difficult to put a number on it.

Labradora Thu 19-Mar-26 16:45:07

I've just found this measurement really useful. OH can tolerate quite a lot and he doesn't bullshit about discomfort or pain so if he says it's an 8 then its an 8. He had two really painful medical emergencies in the past two years and he is having some " issues" - gastric "attacks" really.As the last one came to an end I was able to establish that the crisis had passed by getting his pain level which was down to 2 or 3 from 8 so I could stop planning a visit to A and E.
Before you kind ladies ask , I've got the medical profession chasing a diagnosis here.......

AuntieE Thu 19-Mar-26 16:28:32

My answer: "I have not the faintest idea. I am a historian of religion, not a mathematician. It hurts too much for me to ignore it, which is why I am consulting you. Would "hellish" do as a description?"

suelld Thu 19-Mar-26 15:59:34

Sago

Kidney stones……I couldn’t even begin to tell you!

Yup me too!!!😱

missdeke Thu 19-Mar-26 15:43:48

I think a tooth abscess is probably at the 10 stage. Childbirth (4 times) for me was only aound 5-6 at the most, so I think childbirth is not a good benchmark.

Breaking my hip in January was a definite 9-10, but it really is difficult to say in terms of numbers.

mokryna Thu 19-Mar-26 15:26:00

My teenaged daughter with back pain, which had stopped her going to school, was asked this. When she replied 10 the non-medicial person told her not to be so silly, as that would be for a person whose leg had been amputated in an accident.
Admittedly, could be true but not for an 18 year old in pain to be told that at the time.
We didn’t see her again.

labazs Thu 19-Mar-26 15:24:53

childbirth daughter one ten definitely
daughter 2 6
gall stones 10 that was hell on earth
my dodgy hip and knee now 8

Visgir1 Thu 19-Mar-26 15:18:27

A good while ago we used to use this 1-10 scale on one particular Cardiac Test for Angina. It was surprisingly accurate once you gave the patient an explanation of the grades.

Romola Thu 19-Mar-26 15:10:36

That table of pain is useful. But it brought back the 9 I experienced in hospital after enduring a second operation in 8 days (surgeon error!!). And care on the ward was more or less lacking.

MammaTJ Thu 19-Mar-26 13:40:32

How else do you suggest they assess your pain level? Do you have a better idea?
I answer, as you would,comparing in my mind to previous, well understood, pain, with the corresponding number.

fancythat Wed 18-Mar-26 17:18:05

I have my answer ready before I go in there.

I normally weigh up between a 3 and a 4 . Something like that.

Astitchintime Wed 18-Mar-26 15:43:33

The 1 to 10 scale does seem a bit ambiguous as it relies on the individuals perception and experience of pain surely? An injury for one person might hurt considerably more than for another person with the identical injury IMO.
I suffered a very severe injury a few years ago, in A & E it was obvious that I was in extreme pain. When the Dr asked how bad the pain was I challenged him to try to manipulate the limb and he could then experience just how painful it was! We both laughed as he immediately picked up on my humour………and he prescribed strong pain relief pending scan and x-ray.

LOUISA1523 Wed 18-Mar-26 15:27:28

They ask 1 to 5 now in our hospital

HowVeryDareYou2 Wed 18-Mar-26 12:48:43

twiglet77

I find this useful.

Thanks for that.

PamelaJ1 Wed 18-Mar-26 12:32:34

Great chart!
I am now at no7 but I make a noise when I move and say something like ‘this b….. gel isn’t working’! I must be at 7and a half.

ViceVersa Wed 18-Mar-26 12:24:12

Cossy

Sago

Kidney stones……I couldn’t even begin to tell you!

I had gallstones, I believe it’s similar pain

I've had both. Both were absolutely excruciating, but the kidney stones were marginally worse. Both were off the scale in terms of pain.

Cossy Wed 18-Mar-26 12:13:17

Sago

Kidney stones……I couldn’t even begin to tell you!

I had gallstones, I believe it’s similar pain

eddiecat78 Wed 18-Mar-26 12:09:11

I absolutely hate it too. My brain just doesn't work that way. I can describe pain in words but not numbers.
It gets harder when you go for a follow-up appointment. "You said 8 before, what is it now?"