polnan this isn't to scare you but please take heart in the fact if it is skin cancer the treatments are better than when my husband had it.
My husband was diagnosed with grade 4 malignant melanoma in January 2001 and told he had 5 years to live . He's cancer was 2.5mm it appeared over might. I was born disabled my husband was fit and healthy. The melanoma was just above his right ear in his jet black hair he had a full bushy beard. When he had it removed they had to go twice as deep and twice width all round and skin was taken from the side of his neck where his shoulder meet his neck so one healed you coukd see in as it in the crease of his neck. My husband had large oval scar on his face had cut his beard down to a goatee as they said not hair would grow in a skin graft. But my idiot of a husband had 4 hairs growing when he died. He always had to be different 😁.
If anyone asked about he's scar he told them he got bottled in a pub fight and you should have seen the other fella. He had a weird sense of humour and could make you believe black was white.
Because he never wanted anyone to know he was dieing or in his words dead man walking . Only me and the children knew. Only when he was terminal we had to tell people and he cut people out of our life who treated him differently. I had to threaten my parents they had to be the same with him or he wouldn't see them .
He died 4 days after his 47th birthday in 2004 at home in our bed with me and the children.
Now this isn't to frightened you . But I am happy to say nowadays there is treatment for grade 4 malignant melanoma which would have increased his life span it isn't the death sentence it was.
Even if its benign which I hope it is wear factor 50 suncream and make sure every bit of exposed skin has it on.
Please everyone check your bodies monthly for any change in moles ,skin tags,spots suddenly appear but dont look like spots normally do and any skin which has changed colour. Get check out better to be safe than sorry.
People think I am weird that I am happy there is treatment and if my husband was alive today he would have lived longer and had better quality of life .
Please everyone remember winter sun is just as dangerous as summer.
polnan my husband died 22 years ago . I know how frightening it is but take heart there are better treatments now. And never be ashamed if you end with a scar on your face . Wear it with pride you have survived. Fingers and toes crossed for your results.
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