As my hubby says, he invited his mother-in-law to stay for the weekend and that was almost 35 years ago. She has osteoporosis very badly, but still does several crosswords a day. We have ups and downs , not least because it's easy to get sucked into guilt when someone is effectively trapped at home. We are extremely lucky in being able to afford a granny flat and holidays away together for all of us. Things are definitely looking more difficult now my Mum's last friend recently passed away (she used to stay with us every weekend, in Mum's flat most of the time & also had holidays etc with us).
I think those with financial pressures must feel permanently weary and depressed.
I honestly would not know who to turn to apart from our GP for help of any sort.
At this moment, I feel really overwhelmed as my hubby has just had a quadruple heart bypass, so I have two invalids, but that situation is only temporary & I've been off buying euros - cant get anyone travel insurance at a reasonable cost but sometimes you have to just cross your fingers and have something to look forward to.