It seems a logical thing to do, but, of course, emotions are not logical. Both Mr absent an I are quite happy for any bits of our bodies that might possibly be useful to someone else to be used for their benefit. However, I'm not sure that I would feel comfortable with Mr absent put, not so much on the back burner as in the freezer, until required. I'm pretty sure Mr absent wouldn't feel all that comfortable about me in the same situation. When someone you love dies, it's quite hard to get to grips with your own feelings which race away in all sorts of uncontrollable and often unexpected directions, from devastating grief to furious anger at the person who has died. The rituals of death, such as a funeral, help us through this hugely painful time. I'm not sure how good I would be if it were all put on hold. A day or two, perhaps – longer and I think I would fall apart.