A very interesting article Mamie, raising issues that many GNetters will identify with. I am of that generation, like so many others, with periods of employment interspersed with caring for others. I also have been twice married and divorced. I find it hard to manage on my reduced state pension and teachers pension, as I am just above the threshold for pension credit or help with council tax and so on. I am not moaning about money, but would just like to make a point about social inclusion. I live alone and my family are all at a distance, so I see friends for lunch or invite them for meals at my house. I also belong to a group studying French, a book group, a choir and a social group that goes out on low cost outings. If I didn't make the effort to go out and about, I would simply stay in alone much of the time. However, I find that the cost of even a modest social life is soaring, and I begin to think I will have to cut back on some of my activities. I would be interested to hear how others view this and what they do. I have looked at volunteering, but so many of the openings seem to be aimed at young people, who are naturally desperate for experience to aid their search for work.
Good Morning Wednesday 13th May 2026
Is Mumsnet down today (13th May)


- my state pension is nothing like £140 a week despite all those years at the chalkface. I missed out on a few years after DD 1 was born (1975) then DD2 in 1977 and didn't think to buy them back untilit no longer seemed an economically sound idea. Got to live with it, but why does the grass always seem greener? At least I haven;t been forced to work until I am 67 so will stop whingeing!

