Agree with mice being a claimant on benefits is humiliating even more so when you have worked and paid taxes,and are desperately looking for work.
Problems with parenting can also happen in people that do not claim benefits,and behind every human being and claimant is a story.
People will cheat the system,and that includes the wealthy with tax fiddles,that also mean that honest people pay more,but somehow that seems to be acceptable as a perk,when on benefits unable to get work your self confidence and esteem is non existent any way and there by the grace go I ,I can understand that how easy it would be to slip into the world of alcohol or drugs to ease the every day drudgery that has become yours,it is easy to say go get a job,yes there are jobs,but when you don't fit the criteria for the jobs offered,your already low esteem suffers,we need to break the cycle,but by educating people,how that can be done I am not sure as first they would have to want to be educated,perhaps it should start in school housekeeping and economics and practical courses for the underachieving non academic children,I am going to be ducking behind a big wall because I am probably not stating a clear argument for or against but I am writing from the heart I heartily agree with ariadne about dignity....xxxxxxxnellie