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Live webchat with Stella Creasy MP Wednesday 13 Feb 11.30-12.30

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GeraldineGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 07-Feb-13 15:23:54

Gransnet is supporting One Billion Rising, a global movement protesting against violence against women. (Thank you to those gransnetters who called on us to do this!)

In this country, the campaign has been led by Stella Creasy, MP for Walthamstow. We're delighted that she's agreed to come in for a live webchat on Wednesday to talk about the issue - the one billion women who will be raped or beaten in their lifetime - and what a billion of us can do to protest on Thursday.

Stella is a rising star of the Labour Party and the shadow minister with responsibility for violence against women. She recently ran a highly successful campaign against payday loans.

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 12:15:03

floozie

Would you ever consider doing a GQ shoot like Louise Mensch?

I wondered when this might come up- I hardly know Louise but she always seemed very nice when I did meet her in parliament. We share the same hair colour but we've got very different lives and different politics so I'm always bemused when people make the comparison...When she resigned I was deluged with calls from journalists about could women have it all... I had to point out, I don't have kids, I don't write novels and I don't have a partner who lives overseas so I had little in common with the situation she found herself in. I gave them all details of male MPs with young families- none of them got called...

dopey Wed 13-Feb-13 12:13:36

As a London MP, do you understand what caused the riots a couple of years ago.?Do you think there could be a repeat of them?

fleegle Wed 13-Feb-13 12:12:00

What's it REALLY like being a woman in Westminster? And I mean REALLY grin

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 12:11:32

GeraldineGransnet

If diddling about on the sidelines is allowed, GNHQ will come down and join in. <practises dad-dancing steps>

diddling is very welcome- its how I've been taking dancefloors all my life after all....

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 12:10:59

grrrranny

I was very surprised that my teenage grandaughters knew nothing about One Billion Rising. Were schools not invoved?

OBR is an international volunteer led movement so everything has been organised by volunteers - we've tried to reach out to everyone we can to get them involved and I've run workshops in colleges as well as school question times but anything anyone can do to spread the word about how to be involved is really helpful so please do tell your granddaughters - and grandsons- about it?

GeraldineGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 13-Feb-13 12:09:43

If diddling about on the sidelines is allowed, GNHQ will come down and join in. <practises dad-dancing steps>

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 12:09:41

vilebody

Are you in favour of ending Page 3? Clare Short took a lot of stick for it, of course. But that was then.

I've been working with Lucy Holmes and the amazing No More Page 3 campaign for sometime- she's a real star! For me that campaign is a classic example of the difference we can make when we provide a space for people to come forward and say what we think inside which is this is creepy and outdated. I'm delighted to see Rupert Murdoch saying he's thinking of dropping it and hope he does- it would be a step in the right direction towards a 21st century britain where women are celebrated for their talents, not their tits!

cheeriblegran Wed 13-Feb-13 12:08:31

You have been working across party over One Billion Rising. Have you found you have more in common with young women in other parties than with some of the older men in your own party?

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 12:08:15

wastrel

Did Ant and Dec ever respond to your attempts to get them onside over Wonga?

Alas Ant and Dec's agent refused to pass on my messages about offering to talk through the problems with taking money from Wonga....anytime they want, they'd be welcome to drop into walthamstow or westminster to find out why legal loan sharks are such a problem in the UK...anytime lads, anytime.....

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 12:07:01

granIT

You famously wrote the sleeve notes for an album by Seamasters (The Seamasters?blush) Can you tell us why we should listen to them? And what band should we be listening to now? <tries to be cool>

Its a band called the Wedding Present and the album is called Seamonsters - for me it was one of the key album that I used to sit in my bedroom sulking with as a teenager and hence is very special to me. Everyone has the soundtrack of why life isn't fair don't they? Having been a youth worker before I got elected I know today's teenagers are still sulky so....;-)

vilebody Wed 13-Feb-13 12:05:16

Are you in favour of ending Page 3? Clare Short took a lot of stick for it, of course. But that was then.

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 12:05:10

have just been told off for suggesting I won't dance by gransnet- i will dance, just badly is my point! luckily there are amazing flashmob troupes who have rhythm and timing coming to the events to hide behind - so join me even if you two have two left feet as there'll be a big crowd !

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 12:04:03

hairyberry

By the time you get to my age, the chances are you have had several unpleasant experiences in the street. (I have been flashed at three times). Is part of the campaign to make it easier to challenge men over this sort of behaviour, and what is recommended?

Yes- one of the things I feel passionately about is that too often it appears we ask women to take responsibility for these issues- about what they wear or where they go- rather than having a zero tolerance approach. It also sends a very poor message about men that we think they are somehow incapable of behaving in any other way, which as a big fan of men I don't believe! We all need to say this kind of behaviour doesn't do anyone any favours- and to support each other in calling it out!

timeout Wed 13-Feb-13 12:02:37

That's great about the consciousness-raising stuff but surely to a large extent you are preaching to the converted here? Are there any legislative changes that would really make a difference?

Are the sort of men who abuse women actually going to take any notice of women dancing and getting together and saying how awful it is?

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 12:01:58

crosspatch

Have we actually got to dance tomorrow? I am fully in support of this cause but dancing is not my thing. How else can I make my feelings known?

just being part of it makes a difference- dance is about being free, about being able to go where you want and wear what you want without feeling you are at risk, but its not the only way to join in (and I'll be offering to press the buttons on the stereo as I know the sight of MPs shuffling is probably a big turn off!) there's lots of performances too as well as talks and exhibitions- the main thing is for us on one day and say this has to be a priority so we are all standing up together....*moves awkwardly at the side of the dancefloor...*

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 11:59:49

sofasogood

Following on from crosspatch's comment, it seems to me that One Billion Rising is a fantastic movement but one without a very clear call to action. Do you think there's a need for something concrete that ordinary people can do?

One of the things we have been clear about in OBRUK is its not just about what 650 people sitting in Westminster can do. We need legislative change but we also need a social, economic and culture shock too if we are to tackle inequality. For me its not an either or so we've been running workshops across the country to involve people in the campaign because empowering all those who share our concerns is a crucial way to achieve them. That's why we have a vote in parliament and 160 events across the country for people to take part and be part of this movement- you can find details for them here www.onebillionrising.org and hope you can be part of the flashmob outside parliament too at 11am?!

wastrel Wed 13-Feb-13 11:59:26

Did Ant and Dec ever respond to your attempts to get them onside over Wonga?

cathymcd Wed 13-Feb-13 11:58:35

Hello Stella

Sometimes I despair for my GDs because whatever people say I think equality for women is still a long way off. I want them to have the same opportunities as my GSs - is this really going to be the case in my lifetime or can things actually change across the board/legally etc

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 11:57:10

firenze

Hi Stella, very pleased to see you on Gransnet. You're on twitter a lot. I wanted to ask whether twitter is now necessary for politicians - and do you do all your own tweets?

It always amazes me when people ask if I do my own tweets- as if I would let anyone else touch my gadgets! if its shiny and makes bleepy noises its mine- and joey doesn't share! yes this includes this typing now....

lopsided Wed 13-Feb-13 11:57:04

Would you like to be leader of the Labour Party? What would be your top three priorities if you were now?

grrrranny Wed 13-Feb-13 11:56:23

I was very surprised that my teenage grandaughters knew nothing about One Billion Rising. Were schools not invoved?

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 11:56:05

getmehrt

The Woman's Hour Power List this week has been criticised for being rather predictable and class-based - for not including, for example, the women who came forward over Jimmy Savile. Do you think these lists do women any favours?

We live in what I call the 80/20 society- where we have 20% representation of women in public life, be it in parliament or the media or in business etc. That means that we have to do more to show what we're missing by not being a 50/50 world. Anything which helps identify the talent we have is a good thing and the challenge is how do we keep expanding it to make sure we are using the opportunities to highlight the range of skills that exist across society. Class, ethnicity, disability all come into understanding what barriers people face- the point is that it does no one any favours to live in an equal world, male or female, as we miss out on what they can do!

emigratedfrommumsnet (MNHQ) Wed 13-Feb-13 11:54:21

Oh - dilly stole my question! So instead I will ask another on a similar subject - you believe in decent sex ed (quite right too) - but what are your views on children these days becoming over sexualised? (Let Girls Be Girls campaign etc)

fleeble Wed 13-Feb-13 11:53:47

Is part of One Billion Rising aimed at doing something about female genital mutilation? It seems to me that sometimes it is difficult for those on the liberal-left to challenge practices like this because of cultural sensitivities. Do you think there are some issues that stand above these sorts of sensitivities and shoould be pursued regardless?

StellaCreasy Wed 13-Feb-13 11:53:23

Marthamuffin

Hi Stella - I wondered how you got involved in this important campaign?

I heard Rosario Dawson talking about the campaign at an event on last year's international womens day and then had the opportunity to meet Eve Ensler to talk about it and what was happening elsewhere in the world. Eve is an amazing whirlwind of energy and creativity- its impossible not to feel inspired by her commitment to this issue! Also in the Labour movement we've been clear that pushing for equality isn't something to be done after the economic crisis is resolved, but one of the ways it will be tackled- when 50% of the population isn't being given the same opportunities to succeed we miss out on their potential to contribute! since then we've been going round the country working with campaigners ahead of tomorrow ...which I hope is just the start of something even bigger.....