Surely the state will step in, Bags, not God!
When a political leader lies on their CV - can you trust them?
I am starting a separate thread as I think it is very wrong to link the subject to the Philpotts case.
According to the Daily Mail, which would certainly not minimise the figures, there are 100,000 families with four or more children in receipt of benefits. There are only 900 with 8 or more children. This hardly makes such families a huge drain on the exchequer.
I take the same view as I do about the death penalty - better a small number of feckless people should receive benefits than that a large number of responsible parents should be deprived. Of course, some people come onto benefits through illness, death, divorce or redundancy after their children have been born.
No, I am not advocating large families per se or condoning fecklesness and Yes, I am a UK tax payer.
I would liike to know how anybody suggests that the state can limit family size - the Chinese solution?
Surely the state will step in, Bags, not God!
And some people are just intolerant. God help them if they're ever in a hungry fix.
Interesting article, Grannylin, although wholly predictable in its content, of course - The Sun: "It's all Gordon Brown's fault." The Guardian: "It's all George Osborne's fault."
And yet another example of a meaningless statistic thrown in to give weight to a flimsy claim, this time by Polly Toynbee -' “Work capability” tests are now so severe that last year more than 1,700 people died within weeks of being declared “fit for work”, official figures show.'
What percentage does that figure represent? How did these people die? She's implying that all 1,700 of them died as a result of being 'forced' to work beyond their capabilities - which is of course rubbish.
Orca, can you please expand on your solution of '"monitoring families through society and social services". I have no idea what that means in pratical terms.
Other than that, the only proposals put forward appear to be cutting off child benefit for more than two children at some time in the future. Do people really think that will stop people having children?
As to contraception, most of the popular methods are not 100% reliable. My friend's daughter got pregnant when taking the pill because she had the vomiting virus and did not realise that she should take additional precautions. And what about people whose religion forbids contraception?
We have given the statistics - this is not a major problem - but people will not accept them if they do not fit their own political agenda.
I've interpreted some news articles and some gransnetter posts in the same way as absent did. At least, it often looks as if some people lean that way, which is how I interpreted absent's remark too. You can't go on and on about how awful benefit scroungers are and say benefits must be reduced or not be available after child number x and then think such an interpretation unreasonable.
It's not an unreasonable interpretation of posts and articles which mainly moan but have no real solutions (has anyone?) to the idiosyncracies and frailties of humanity.
absent no more a hobby than yours of misinterpreting others peoples' views - or, as you put it, extrapolating posts and then coming to a totally erroneous conclusion which you interpret as fact. You can hardly be surprised if that offends people.
Eloethan Thank you for that [qualified] vote of confidence. The people who are up in arms are frequently given to attacking my posts – it's a kind of hobby for them when they are bored.
Orca I asked how you would wish to deal with the issue of the long term unemployed with large families.
You replied "monitoring families through society and social services". What exactly does that mean?
You added that such families have "sufficient money" to cover their needs but not their greed. Are you seriously saying that cutting benefits for, say, 11 children down to 3 children would not have a catastrophic effect on a family's income? People are up in arms about absent's comments but, whilst she acknowledges herself the term "starvation" was perhaps an over-dramatisation, the ultimate result of massively decreasing welfare payments would be severe malnourishment. If, as somebody suggested, the current system was maintained for current recipients but limited to 2/3 children for new claimants, there is no guarantee that this would prevent large families, and children born into such families would suffer.
Nelliemoser explains the barriers to moving from benefit to work these days - particularly with the sort of "zero hours" contracts that are becoming increasingly popular with employers. As Polly Toynbee was quoted in the Sun article, there are 5 people chasing every job and in some depressed areas there are 20 people chasing every job.
The Sun's columnist talks about people "breeding", which I think is a dehumanising and offensive term and one which has sinister historical connotations.
Greatnan cautions against using the American model as a guide for our own social arrangements. I second that. Despite being the richest country in the world, the US has a relatively high rate of infant mortality and significant child poverty. The recent documentary that some gransnetters watched showed the dire poverty in which a a surprisingly large number of American children are living - hardly a recommendation for the US system.
Actually the Sun is worth reading today as it has both sides of the argument on the front page!
www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/features/4875901/Did-benefits-culture-turn-Mick-Philpott-into-a-killer.html
And Sel I have certainly never suggested that any member of gransnet wanted children to starve. Or was that supposed to be a little witticism – so appropriate in the context. Ha bloody ha.
Sel
"Greatnan I'm not so sure you're right. Reading letters in various newspapers and even some of the posts on Gransnet, I think that there are people who would leave the children of existing large families on welfare to starve. They would shake their heads and say how sad it is but the parents have been so irresponsible."
See – I do understand the concept of copying and pasting. For the record I used to literally to cut, copy and paste in the days before computer setting.
Returning to our muttons, is this the post you mean? Where have I attributed a specific comment to a specific member of gransnet rather than extrapolating from various posts on various threads over quite a long period of time advocating reductions in benefits for families deemed to have too many children?
Orca yes, but thankfully there are very few Philpotts in this world.
You'd be surprised how many women claim to be 'super-fertile' and for whom no contraception seems to work, sunseeker 
Sunseeker Philpot admitted he did this and one of the reasons reason he wanted custody of his mistress's children was for the money in benefits.
In the case of "multiple" births I think perhaps a exception could be made. As for "accidental" pregnancies, surely with the easy access to contraception these days there shouldn't be many of those - it may even encourage people to use contraception.
But what about all the 'accidental' pregnancies? And the multiple births?
Sel how could I or Ceesnan be accused of that, we are not suggesting that those with existing large families should have their payments stopped.

sunseeker you posted while I was writing, great minds?!!
Ceesnan you too 
sunseeker do be careful, you'll be accused of wanting to starve children to death with this suggestion 
Limiting child benefit to only the first two children would seem to be the best way forward. As it would be totally unfair to penalise families where there are aleady more than two it would only be workable if it was announced that it would take effect say, in January 2014. Yes, it would be slow to make a difference to the bill, but IMO it would certainly stop people who are long term benefit claimants think twice about adding to their families if they knew they would not be getting an increase in their payments. I know there are some women who "love babies and being pregnant" - well that is fine if you can afford it. I love Laboutin shoes, but guess what? I don't have any - wonder why.....
Absent I am sorry, I didn't realise that you didn't understand the concept of copy and paste. I copied and pasted your post, your words and you still maintain you said no such thing. Again, I would ask you which poster made the comments you have attributed to them?
I don't know whether someone will have lots of children just to get more money from the welfare state, but I think many of us agree that welfare payments need to be reduced. Would it not be a good idea to announce that say 1 year from the date of the announcement child benefit will only be paid for the first 2 or 3 children BUT any families above that number already receiving child benefit will continue to receive it until the child leaves full time education (which I think is the case now).
Nellie when I say choosing not to work I mean just that...making a life-style choice that they do not want to get a job. This is nothing to do with those who want to work but can't get into employment.
Two totally different scenarios.
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