This is an interesting thread and one that I am compelled to add to.
My DD who had a reasonably good job, not great pay but above the minimum wage, for 3 full days a week. She received child benefit, working family tax credit plus £4oo p.m. child maintenance for her only child. On top of that she received help with her council tax. So all in all, not a bad level of income. Out of the blue she decided one day recently to just chuck in her job and live on benefits. I was horrified when she told me that she will be better off not working. All her rent, council tax will be paid in full plus she will get JSA and tax credits. When I pointed out that I thought this would be fraud she just shrugged her shoulders and said, everyone is doing it, all you have to do is tell lies to the job centre and say you are actively looking for work and they just shell out money on strength of that.
As a family we have always had a strong work ethic and we find this situation very sad indeed. How is the government handing out all this money to people who have no intention of working and where is the incentive to work when so much is just being handed over for no return.
Since leaving her job she has become lazy and is demotivated in every sense of the word, i.e. not bothering to get DGD to school on time or sometimes not getting her there at all, phoning the school to say she is unwell. I am desparate to discourage this behaviour but I fear this is the big slippery slope, and she will never get back into work.
Would love some feedback on this situation and any advice on the right thing to say to her.